So the lovely people over at Unbound are sending me some free toys. Score one for being gay and autistic! Also thanks to
@tallasianchick for telling @plumpuddin about this so I could find out about it. Point is the lovely generous people at Unbound are sending me a new vibe, my first harness/collar set, my first cock ring and possibly some lube and condoms.
So if anyone has any tips or tricks please share. Also if I am getting condoms and lube, any advice for a guy looking to finger himself but is way nervous about it?
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How exciting! Which vibrator are you getting? Ollie? Also their collar/harness set is so pretty! Let us know how you feel about it once you get it.
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Yeah I’m getting Ollie cause every one says it’s like the Hulk of vibes. Plus they say it has a different vibration feeling compared to the Pillow Talk so I’m excited to test it out.
Also it looked SUPER pretty in the picture and I’m super excited to try my first collar and harness! I’ll definitely talk about it when I get it. Probably in a new topic lol
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Hell yeah! Very happy to have helped two ppl out!
As for fingering, make sure you’re super comfortable and relaxed. That’s really the first step and take things slow. Start with one finger and use the lines on your finger as "measurement"and make sure your hands are clean and nails trimmed. Use lots and lots of lube. YOU GOT THIS!
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Thanks! Honestly the idea of fingering myself gives me the same feeling as wanting to try cum eating. I psych myself up and get ready but get super nervous and don’t follow through. Hopefully when I try on my first collar I’ll get a little confidence boost.
Also I have no clue on how a cock ring works so looking forward to learning that as well.
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I have a kink for cum. It just feels nice. If I weren’t poly, I’d let anyone cum in me. Downsides of not being monogamous and singledom!
HERE’S A HELPFUL SITE: https://www.theadulttoyshop.com/blog/how-to-use-penis-rings.html
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Thanks! This is super helpful!
And yeah to me cum is super hot. I usually find that when I watch like CEI stuff, I get extra flustered and turned on. Though I haven’t actually eaten cum yet I love the idea! Be every time I bring my hand to my mouth I get get nervous or freak out. It sucks cause there’s lots of really good audio porn to walk me through it but I always don’t follow through. But like to me it makes sense. Like I know I’ll eat cum eventually with a partner so I should try by myself but I never can do it you know? It sucks cause this is like one of the best things to have a praise kink for.
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Permission permission permission. You are allowed to touch everything in your body. Just go slow, be gentle and take all the time in the world. Have fun!
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If you’re feeling really nervous about fingering maybe try it first with some latex gloves (if you’re not allergic) and some lube! That way you have a bit of a barrier before jumping right in
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