So a while back I saw one of the sexual educators I follow, talk about kegel’s. They described it as an exercise women can do to strengthen their vaginal muscles and that men can do it to strengthen the anus muscles. It’s done by flexing the penis while erect. As a man who wants to be pegged one day but also has a crippling addiction to caffeine, I figured a little muscle training would be beneficial, or at the very least couldn’t hurt. So I had some YouTube vids on my tv and had some of my favorite porn on my iPad to keep me hard. I gave myself a few strokes and occasionally placed my vibrator on my shaft for a few seconds just to keep the stimulation going. Once I felt a little hard I flexed the muscles a little and tried to keep a pattern.
At a some point the session turned less of flexing my muscles and more placing my vibrator on my shaft for a few seconds longer each time. Before I knew what I was doing, I was seeing how long I could hold the vibe to me without cumming. What started as harmless exercise turned into my first experience of edging. Keep in mind I do savor the feeling and usually don’t rush to climax and I do enjoy ruining my own orgasms but I’ve never edged before. I stopped a few times just before the feeling got to climax. After a few minutes of me edging myself I was panting and more in the moment then I usually am. I was definitely more vocal then I usually am. Eventually I felt so close to climax I left the vibe in place for a few seconds before removing it and ruining my orgasm for a few seconds before returning the vibe on high and experience more. This climax was different cause I felt the effect longer and it felt so much better. I think I understand the signals my body shows before cumming but I’m curious of anyone knows any good edging tips?
I’ve found a lot of success with edging and really just building up endurance by using a vibrator with multiple levels and functions. So that build up to an orgasm, but then switching the vibe to a slower level or a different pulse. Any vibe that is just a few speeds or the classic ones that you twist to increase don’t really help with that sort of work, so if you can get something with a remote to change the pattern/speed, or even just a want with a lot of different ones, switching it up in the moment with speed and pattern really helps edging for me.
Any of these types of toys! https://spectrumboutique.com/catalogsearch/result/?q=remote+control
Although I like the ones with remotes that are fully separate vs. tethered to the toy like some of the bullet vibe ones are.
Cool, thank you so much for the recommendations. I’ll definitely look into them cause edging sounds like a lot of fun