Hi so people on here tell me that while I’m a Virgin I should experiment and find what I like. And apparently people like hearing about what I experiment with. So here goes! I took the advice of some other topics and tried to change things up. First I turned out my normal lights. I have these cute fairy lights over my bed. I put those on. I then grabbed this old robe rope I have. It’s soft and fuzzy and I used to tie my wrists together just cause… I dunno autism is weird. I grabbed that fuzzy rope and tied my legs together at the thigh. Before doing the final knot, I placed my pillow talk vibe between my thighs and tied it in place. I had read or watched videos of guys (mostly girls) bounding their legs together with a vibe in between. I had also heard of this thing called overstimulation. The practice of continuing to apply pleasure after someone has climaxed. I wanted to try that. Sounded fun. So with my legs bound together and a vibe pushed against my head I started. I made it a rule not to touch my pelvis except for the odd stroke to keep me hard. Fiddling with a half assed knot and trying to get a position that wasn’t awkward kinda killed the mood lol. Anyway as the vibe was going and my ears were preoccupied with the videos I was watching, I started experimenting. I figured this was a very BDSM situation so I did what I knew about the subject. I pulled my chest, I stroked along my sides, smacked my butt, you know normal stuff a dom does to a sub. I even tried sucking my fingers which felt odd but I wasn’t against it. I eventually laid flat on my back and just let the feelings hit me.
All this while sudden waves of pleasure kicked it. I felt a slow burn of goodness hit me in shots. After about 40 minutes, most of that was me trying the knots, it happened. I finished but was determined to feel even more. As I finished, I kinda felt it. The continuous pleasure and vibrations made my body twitch and my inner sub voice come out. I then realized that from what I’ve seen, most overstimulation uses a stringer vibe. Like an actual wand. I struggled to undo the knotted rope, clean myself up and catch my breath.so what did I learn? Well one I will need a stringer wand. And two I might be into bondage and maybe finger sucking? Yay for experimenting at my own pace. I actually felt pretty good about myself. I don’t usually get fully naked when I masterbate cause of the whole body positivity thing. But as I rolled my shirt up to play with my chest, not gonna lie I felt sexy as hell!
HAPPY FOR YOUR SELF EXPLORATION AND LIBERATION! YOU’VE CUM SUCH A LONG WAY, JASON! Proud of you! lol
NICE!! Sounds like you had a great time! Did it give you any ideas for things to try next?
I had a great time! I have a few ideas actually. One I was thinking of tying my wrists together and grinding on my vibe. Maybe I could try some ice play next time. I would try overstimulation again once I have a stringer vibe. I always kinda wanted to try some dildo stuff but I’d need to buy one first. I’ve actually wanted to try cum eating for a long time but I always freak out and quit. I do want to try edging and getting used to that.
Ooh, since you mentioned grinding on your vibrator, you might be interested in this toy I recently got. It’s called the Enby and made by Wild Flower. It’s a uniquely shaped silicone vibrator designed for grinding (among any other uses you can come up with!) It’s not super strong but its unique shape makes it really fun to use in ways that aren’t as easy to achieve with more traditional vibrators.
I’ll definitely look into it
Okay looking at the specs, I’m definitely saving up for it. Sounds like a ton of fun!
I thought that was one of those old school, bike riding newspaper boy caps at first! 