My partner and I have discussed having a threesome, and we have even put some effort into finding a third to join us. As soon as someone is interested though I get really nervous and shy. Basically I like the idea of having a threesome until the idea becomes a possible reality. Does anyone have tips for having threesomes/ overcoming fears? I guess my biggest fear would be feeling left out.
Thanks friends <3
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Take to your partner about your concerns.
Try and figure out the source of your hesitance and go from there. Threesomes are intimidating, but they are the best!
I recommend taking to both your partner and the person you will have the threesome with and talk about your fears and concerns. I’m sure you’re not alone. I was definitely nervous during my first threesome, but once I saw both of them enjoying themselves, I experienced compersion (experiencing pleasure from seeing your partner experience pleasure)!
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Thank you! How would you recommend finding the right third person?
You and your partner can make a profile on feeld. Feeld is a kink-friendly app where you can add your partner’s profile!
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If it helps I’d try baby steps. Maybe get you, your partner and the lucky third, put porn on the big screen and just touch yourselves. Watch each other touch yourselves and see their expressions. See how you all respond to pleasure. Like don’t touch each other, just yourselves. Therapists say that this helps new couples get comfortable before losing their virginity. It might help get you more comfortable with them. Hopefully this helps a little.
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Can you tell me more about this app? It sounds interesting.
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I also worried about being left out my first time but it turns out I really enjoy watching! Our third was a good friend whom we trust greatly and also expressed attraction towards the both of us, as a couple.
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Yay! Can I ask how the threesome went?
It was really good! Especially since that was my first experience having sex with a woman. Nothing became weird after amongst our friendship or my relationship with my partner. It was fun and also tiring 
it’s a lot of work to please double the amount of people as usual haha
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Yay!!! Happy it all went well! Don’t be afraid to take breaks. That’s what the other person is there for 
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If you don’t mind me asking, what were the participants and positions? And how did it feel to receive and to give such love and affection to multiple partners?
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An update: Now that I am stuck in my house I’ve had time to think more about having a threesome, and I’m pretty excited honestly but I’m stuck in my house!!!
Hope everyone is staying safe out there <3
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Yeah you know how toilet paper is selling out so quickly? When this whole thing blows over, sex toys, lube, condoms and new mattresses are gonna go in bulk lol a lot of people are gonna have a lot of sex when this gets better.