Hi all, my name is Danielle (they, them, theirs pronouns) and I’m a fiber artist and part time phone sex operator. This year has jumbled up my life and I’m now living with my partners in the middle of nowhere Kansas instead of back in Chicago, so I’m excited to have more online spaces to talk with folks again!
I was a peer sex educator during my undergrad years, and would like to get back into sexual health advocacy work at some point, I found a lot of joy in it 
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Welcome Danielle and greetings from your mod who happens to be in Chicago! 
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I’m very jealous! I’ve only been gone for a few months, but I miss Chicago like wild! Such an amazing city 
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Welcome Danielle! I am sure you’ll love it here! We all do, and Lisa is a great mod!
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Aww, thank you 
Nice to read after I just deleted a couponing bot, ha. All in a day’s work 
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Hellooo, my name’s Oli and I’m a gay trans guy from Colorado! I live with my boyfriend I work at an assisted living place currently. I’ve been with my bf for almost 7 months now, and I started HRT about 5 months ago. Happy to join the forum!
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I’m CockyPenguin, He/Him. I’m cis straight married man. My wife and I enjoy various kinks. We’ve been together for about 10 years, Married for almost 3. As quite a few on here we’re from Michigan. I’m a programmer, my wife is a tattoo apprentice. I grew up in a VERY conservative church, and still struggle with personal feelings of guild occasionally. I’ve seen the harm the church can do, and while I’m still Christian, I’ve walked away from most of my upbringing.
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It’s a pleasure to have you here. Everyone is so nice and understanding. I didn’t notice how many people in here were from Michigan. And good on you for finding yourself even if your still looking for a bit. I hope you didn’t have to put up with powdered milk cereal for too long. Unless that’s more of a Canadian Christian thing.
Anyway welcome.
You are exactly what I need. Need to ask you so much.
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DM me anywhere, pref insta. https://linktr.ee/tallasianchick
Hi! I’m Sunny (female pronouns). I’m a musician and an actress. I’m in a lesbian, non-monogamous relationship. I’m really interested in disrupting hegemonic and heteronormative ways of thinking our sexuality. I’d really like to reade non-monogamous experiences and to explore the BDSM world.
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Welcome, Sunny! Glad to have you here, love your intro, I’m setting an intention next year to explore the BDSM more with my partner.
Hi I’m MNLady
Started using toys about 9 months ago, its been very fun and exciting. Thought if I joined in on a chat forum it would give me an outlet for great conversation.
Divorced a few years ago. Really having fun finding myself and a starting a new chapter.
Since im so new to the whole toy thing I’m hoping to get some great ideas for my journey of self love.
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Well we’re happy to have ya, and I’m glad your having fun finding a new you. Welcome to the toys club
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Hi! My name is Willow, I am 17 years old and am pansexual and genderfluid. I am very interested and excited to pursue a career in sex work and sexual healing and am very grateful for this like-minded community. I am very kinky and enjoy a variety of kinks such as spanking, Daddy/mommy, and nipple play. I am looking forward to getting to know you all more! 
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hi, i’m donna! i’m 21 years old, nonbinary and bisexual. i’m super new to the sex toy world, but it’s sort of grabbed me and sucked me in and now i’m just absolutely fascinated with them! i love to paint and draw and make things with my hands, take pictures, and grow orchids in my free time.
i’m all about simple comforts and small pleasures in life, about being cozy and happy and cultivating spaces of peace in my and others’ lives. i’m just a little ball of hygge! this, my fascination with sex toys, and love for expressing myself have sort of led me down the path of deciding to become a sex toy reviewer and personal wellness writer! i’d love to combine all my hobbies and passions into one project and hopefully help and inspire others with embracing their sense of sexuality and feeling comfortable with expressing themselves the way they want to.
welp, that’s all about me. nice to meet all of you! :~)
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Welcome, Donna! I’m all about hygge this year, and especially now, since I’m in Chicago and we’re entering peak cozy winter season
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Hi I’m Stag, a gay trans man oyster farmer from Washington! I’m mostly here for tips, listening to people’s stories, and finding stuff to try out with my epic boyfriend. Looking forward to talking with yall!
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ooooh that sounds heavenly!! i live in florida so the coldest it really gets here is 30° for like 3 days max 
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The high on Christmas was 12 and felt like 7, haha. We’re supposed to get a few inches of snow starting tomorrow night. 
I usually go to New Orleans in December (for my bday) and couldn’t this year with everything going on, so really missing my winter weather escape trip. Enjoy the sun for me!
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