Hi all, I’m writing cause I’m seeking very specific dildo recommendations and I’m wondering if someone might help. I’m a trans woman with a penis, I like to penetrate my partners, and I like to be able to use a toy. I don’t mind just mashing my own genitals down to wear a harness with a dildo, but in the past I’ve used a hollow vibrating dildo that I could actually wear around my own genitals with a packing harness, and I’m trying to find a toy that can create that experience but that also:
- doesn’t come pre-attached to a harness (from what I’ve been able to find there are plenty of hollow dildos but are marketed towards cis men who are assumed not to own a harness. Also, a “ball strap” will not work)
- is easy to clean/sanitize (see: doesn’t come attached to its own harness lol)
- vibrates
My thought is that there might be a dildo with a cavity for an insertable bullet vibe that somehow has space for both a penis and a bullet vibe, but at this point I’m really over my head in trying to research and hoping someone has a recommendation for me?
Thank you!