Super common, lots of stimulation at once, ha. Cock rings do help maintain an erection during anal play too if you want that, but yeah, just using a vibe in the mix helps too!
Also can’t remember if you have mentioned it before, but a smaller plug and working it up from that is great too, and lends to a lot more mobility vs. fingers if that is something you can invest in. Also nice thing about a plug is you can also rest a vibe against the flat base while inserted and it gives more sensation as well (some plugs have a vibe in them, but have found just using one against the base works as well too).
I read an article somewhere that recommends when you use a “warm-up or beginner” plug to keep squeezing it. It will get that muscle ready to be opened up. I do it when I wanna go up another size. It does work. It’s been a while but I like running errands while have one in.
Yeah I totally want to invest in a plug. I’ve seen a few on Spectrum that I have my eyes on. I feel a plug is a good place to start and more mobility would be awesome since I’m not too nimble with just my fingers. I didn’t know you could but a vibe on the base! That’s really cool and might save me buying a plug that vibes.
Yup! Won’t be as strong of a vibration as an internal vibe, but still has vibration. Also there are some that have removable vibes too, those are great, just have a removable bullet vibe in the base.
Legit, I don’t know why but being pegged has become like a fantasy for me. So some day I want to be pegged.
But I have a dick, so gotta be a bend over boyfriend scenario (or anal fucked with a dick) but I’m an anal virgin except for toys.
Toys are a great! And def. so many different reasons folks enjoy pegging, both giving and receiving. For me and my partner, I think some of the appeal is the switch in power dynamic for us, since I’m usually the more submissive one.
Right? Like pegging sounds SO FUN. Probably more fun cause I’m Bi (leaning towards gay) but honestly pegging sounds so fun. Especially since there are vibrating dildos.
Also bend over boyfriend, I like that.
My partner and I are a heterosexual couple, I had no experience in butt stuff when I met him. Now he’s tells me he created a monster.
Pegging was a fantasy of his that took 3 years and me suggesting it for him to admit to. Even though we had given and received on that ’end’ he is old fashioned and was convinced I would think he was gay and leave him.
We both have mobility issues, me knees him his back and a leg injury. At one point he had an open wound for almost a year. Our most comfortable position is him straddling me. I love the rubbing it creates and it puts me in a good place to play with his cock.
He tells me that he has the most intense orgasms in this position. We have been in search of the perfect dildo for him. Something soft, over 6.5 inches and thin an inch or under. We just got one from spectrum I hope to try out very soon.
As a woman, I love giving him something he needs it’s super satisfying and I get super horny just thinking about it.
I want to buy one of the we-vibes for our pegging sessions but haven’t pulled the trigger yet. When we talk about it he always brings up the taboo of it and tells me he can’t imagine any man not enjoying it. That everyone should try it once and they would be hooked. I was not going to let anyone do anything to my butt until he slipped a well-lubed finger in me while I was orgasming. This was very early in our experimenting with each other and I’m very glad he did it if he had asked I would have said no. My only wish is he could take more then we could share the double dong I have and that would be amazing.
That is awesome! I don’t have any suggestions on increasing sizing. But wish you best of luck. It’s been a while since I’ve played back there. But with some warm up I can get over 2" diameter. Not quite to 2.5" yet.
I have a deep red and black lace one they are unfortunately out of, but they have a couple in this line (and some other femme leaning options) in stock. It’s adjustable but stays in place, and even on my plus size body the corset back sits perfectly at the top of my ass and makes it look awesome. I love the corset detail and really love wearing it.
I love Glitter Kink that Puffy linked to, hoping to get one of their pieces soon!
RodeoH has some cute boy short options too, I really dig the purple one. I have friends who love their brand, they just don’t fit me well the way I carry my weight, but heard lots of love for the brand: https://rodeoh.com/collections/panty
And I haven’t heard of this brand before but was curious after finding them googling. Doesn’t look like it would work for my body, but for a straight size these are super cute! Just personally can’t vet them: https://www.instagram.com/velvetnest/
Happily Married couple (Him 49, Her 43), experimented with light anal play for years but about five years ago finally purchased our first harness and pegging dildo. We have grown to enjoy it very much, have an active sex life (5 times/week), make love traditional (vaginal) twice, her pegging me twice and mutual masterbation/oral once. Now have (3) harnesses and (5) strapons depending on her mood. Both love it and wouldn’t change it and so glad we have it as part of our sex life.
