So since I came out, I’ve been fascinated by this thing called a prostate orgasm. I’ve actually wanted to experience it myself. The problem is I’m not quite ready for it. Something about it makes me nervous and put it off. Its actually like this for a few things. But I read that it can be achieved through external stimulating. I figured it’d be easy. I’ve read up on how awkward it feels, I’ve seen it online, and I have a vibe so I figured it wouldn’t be that hard. However to my knowledge I haven’t done it. Whenever I look up on how to do it, there’s very little actual information. And what is there I don’t understand. I’m not familiar with all the words and such. I just don’t get the concept. Any advice?
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Try searching male G spot or prostate milking, this photo gives an illustration of where the prostate is located. Follow your body’s response and do what feels comfortable.
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Thanks. I’ll give it a shot
Lay however you want just make sure you’re relaxed, shake off those nerves (they will hinder your pleasure), and use lube. Make sure your nails are clean and trimmed (or use a condom).
Make sure to start at your own comfortable pace and insert one finger about an inch into the anus, then bend your finger TOWARDS the front of your body. Imagine your trying to reach your belly button.
Hope this helps!
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That’s actually a really helpful tutorial! The problem is I’m actually nervous about the penetration. I meant to write that in my topic but it auto corrected it out. That’s why I was hoping for help with external stimulation. Thing is the whole penetration thing is like a few other things I wanna do. But I freak out and get nervous and don’t go through. But thanks for the advice! It’s more helpful then what I’ve read.
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Definitely take your time. Lube is key when you first start off, start small, and just listen to your body! Remember you’re in control and you can stop at anytime you’re uncomfortable or if it hurts.
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@Jason I can’t peak on prostate orgasms but I can speak on trying penetration when freaked out by it! I do vaginal dilation as treatment for vaginismus. This was a super intimidating concept, especially when I first started! Something I found helpful was putting on music and very gently penetrating myself (with lube!) for the length of one song. It gave me a firm starting and stopping point, and meant I only needed to get through a few short minutes of it. Additionally, the music served as a distraction. Sometimes I would also save little treats for myself to indulge in after I did my routine dilation, like favorite snacks, books I’ve been waiting to read, or pleasurable masturbation. You might find tactics like these helpful for testing the waters and motivating yourself through it!
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