Hi! I’ve tried a strapless strap-on before with mediocre success. I’ve seen reviews from the sex toy bloggers and my fave sex ed YouTubers and my friends all with about the same experience. But it’s something that I still want to explore. I feel certain that there /is/ a better experience out there for me. So I have three questions for you (you who has clicked onto this thread):
Have you had a good experience with a strapless strap-on?
Are there any tips that you have found to make using one better/easier/more pleasurable/more fulfilling?
Are there any specific models of strapless strap-ons that are better/easier/more pleasurable to use? Based on my experience I’d like one that’s lighter.
I enjoy double dildos because I feel like they give me more control, and they feel good because they pull down on my G-spot. However with that being said, I hate that they’re called strapless strap-ons. First of all, the wearer is putting the bulb into a wet hole, so you’re setting yourself up for it to pop out. I personally only know one person who enjoys clenching on it without a harness. So the first step to making it more enjoyable is to use it with a harness to help support it. The Joque or Sportsheets underwear harnesses are great for supporting a double.
As far as the doubles themselves, the strap-on-me have been one of my favorites I’ve used. They’re bendable and come in a few different sizes, so you can really adjust them and customize them to your individual preferences. Or the new Share Lite only available through fun factory at the moment is lighter and has a great shape to stay put.
there’s also a round up on the Spectrum Journal here that’s worth reading.