Hey all! Your very own admin has an article up over on Spectrum Journal. After chatting here a lot about anal play, and having much experience (especially with first timers), I wrote up a little guide on how to be a good top for your partner, from prep to aftercare!
A lot of prep can go into being a bottom, and rightfully so. But I wanted to share some tips I’ve found over the years for being a supportive top, especially if folks are nervous about putting a partner at ease who is new to bottoming.
Hope you enjoy the piece!