The always amazing Midori (if you aren’t familiar with her, check her out) has a super rad and informational article over on Spectrum Journal that highlights the art of negotiation and consent.
“Before you begin with your lover or partner, look within yourself & face your hunger. This isn’t about the specific tools or activities. This is about the rawness of your passions.”
It’s a must read for really any couples in any play dynamics and full of great communication tips!