Hi, I’m a widowed, hetero male in my 60s. For the past 15 years, my sexual outlets have been masturbation or simple massages with a handy. I did have a girlfriend a few years back, but I didn’t feel I was putting into the relationship what I felt was needed. I had been hoping for a somewhat more relaxed approach to sex, and it wasn’t working quite that way.

Recently, I’ve started playing with a couple of simpler toys: masturbation sleeves, and I just started with a prostate massager. I wish that subjects like sex and masturbation could be discussed as easily as home repair and cooking.

I am looking forward to learning more about myself and maybe try another relationship.