# Vibe to help with tribbing **URL:** \ **Category:** Uncategorized\ **Created:** [May 18, 2020, 2:57pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742 "2020-05-18T14:57:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dangerousD](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/dangerousd/32/349_2.png) [@dangerousD](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/dangerousD)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2020, 2:57pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742/1 "2020-05-18T14:57:12Z")
Ok, I’m looking for a specific toy to use for grinding action between two females. I’m a masc top and my bottom does not like penetration. We’ve tried double-sided dildos but that’s not for her pleasure. When we grind together on her bullet, it’s awesome. Her bullet died like yesterday though. We think her cat was chewing on the cord or something. 🐈 **cat lady problems** I’m torn between Romp Wave Rechargeable Silicone Vibrator and Dame Products Pom Flexible Rechargeable Vibrator There’s a huge difference in price! The romp wave is so cheap I could honestly buy both and not feel bad… Thoughts? Anyone have a fave toy for tribbing? [https://spectrumboutique.com/romp-wave-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.html?qty=1](https://spectrumboutique.com/romp-wave-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.html?qty=1) [https://spectrumboutique.com/dame-products-pom-flexible-rechargeable-vibrator.html?qty=1#178=354](https://spectrumboutique.com/dame-products-pom-flexible-rechargeable-vibrator.html?qty=1#178=354) ---
**Author:** ![Jason](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/jason/32/259_2.png) [@Jason](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Jason)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2020, 5:37pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742/2 "2020-05-18T17:37:04Z")
I haven’t tried it myself but this could also be a possible option. > **[Enby](https://wildflowersex.com/collections/vibrators/products/enby)** > >  Designed to please a variety of bodies, Enby is a dynamic rechargeable vibrator that can be humped, rubbed on, tucked in a harness, and placed between bodies to offer stimulation in all the right places. Flex Enby's wings to stroke, grab and... ---
**Author:** ![dangerousD](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/dangerousd/32/349_2.png) [@dangerousD](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/dangerousD)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2020, 6:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742/3 "2020-05-18T18:10:07Z")
WOW 😻 That’s so awesome. Got to get it for use with my harness too ---
**Author:** ![plumpuddin](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/plumpuddin/32/181_2.png) [@plumpuddin](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/plumpuddin)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2020, 10:32am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742/4 "2020-05-19T10:32:05Z")
Hi! The Enby is a great choice! I have it and my partner and I use it that way. I will warn though that it’s not super powerful so it may not be the best choice if you crave tons of power in your vibe. It has a nice, mild rumble. I don’t reach for it every day but it works really well between bodies, which makes it convenient to have. My partner and I also use the Sola Sync in this way! It’s a wand but has a small head and long handle, so it can he held between bodies. This one is definitely stronger and rumblier than the Enby. > **[Sola Sync Wireless Remote 10-Function Rechargeable Silicone Wand](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/sola-sync-wireless-remote-10-function-rechargeable-silicone-wand)** > > The Sola Sync Wand Massager is sexy, state of the art and  stylish! Sync was designed with an extra long ergonomic handle that allows one to stimulate all those hard to reach areas on your neck, back , shoulders and of course the erogenous... I’ve been eyeing the Romp Wave so let us know if you get it and if you like it! ---
**Author:** ![dangerousD](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/dangerousd/32/349_2.png) [@dangerousD](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/dangerousD)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2020, 2:45pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742/5 "2020-05-19T14:45:09Z")
Yeah I ended up getting the Enby because it just sold me. Also the name is so clever… so I got that with a suction toy, because I agree that I’m not sure grinding will ever be enough enough you know? Lol but I think it’s soooo ergonomic that it’s going to be a lot of fun. Still might order the romp wave, since I really want to support my local business and Spectrum doesn’t carry the Enby. ---
**Author:** ![MakeUpAndSin](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/makeupandsin/32/359_2.png) [@MakeUpAndSin](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/MakeUpAndSin)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2020, 7:00pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibe-to-help-with-tribbing/742/6 "2020-05-22T19:00:51Z")
The Enby is pretty firm and if you want something to grind against something a little squishier is nice. The Romp wave is perfect for that, rechargeable, flexible and silicone. Something even squishier is the [Tenga Iroha Zen](https://spectrumboutique.com/tenga-iroha-zen-squishy-silicone-vibrator.html). Or a smaller wand will be similar to the bullet shape you were using and the handle is an added bonus. Check out the [Mini Emma](https://spectrumboutique.com/svakom-mini-emma-rechargeable-powerful-wand.html)