# The Art of Negotiation with Midori

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The always amazing Midori (if you aren’t familiar with her, [check her out](https://fhp-inc.com/)) has a super rad and informational article over on Spectrum Journal that highlights the art of negotiation and consent.

“Before you begin with your lover or partner, look within yourself & face your hunger. This isn’t about the specific tools or activities. This is about the rawness of your passions.”

It’s a must read for really any couples in any play dynamics and full of great communication tips!

> **[The Art of Negotiation & Consent | Spectrum Journal](https://spectrumboutique.com/journal/article/the-art-of-negotiation-with-midori/)**
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> Consent is so often presented as if it is some dry contractual negotiation. In reality, it is much more complex. Click to read more.