# Should i get a wand? **URL:** \ **Category:** Uncategorized\ **Created:** [April 24, 2020, 3:07pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556 "2020-04-24T15:07:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mayagryph](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/mayagryph/32/281_2.png) [@mayagryph](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/mayagryph)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2020, 3:07pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/1 "2020-04-24T15:07:04Z")
Hi everyone! im new šŸ™‚ being stuck in lockdown has already resulted in me buying a new dildo and bullet vibe haha but I want to branch out even more. Iā€™ve only ever used g-spot or bullet vibes beforeā€¦ I prefer external clitoral stimulation to internal generally, and the bullet I have isnā€™t giving me enough deep rumbly oomphā€¦ does anyone have any recs? my only real requirement it that its quiet (im with my family) and affordable thankyouuuuu ā¤ ---
**Author:** ![Jason](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/jason/32/259_2.png) [@Jason](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Jason)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2020, 3:59pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/2 "2020-04-24T15:59:19Z")
Theres the Pillow Talk here on Spectrum. Itā€™s quiet and has som decent power but itā€™s a bit more buzz then rumble. For deep rumbling Iā€™d recommend the Ollie from Unbound. Itā€™s a little louder but a closed door and maybe a blanket will make it whisper quiet. The Ollie is crazy powerful with a few heavenly patterns and intensityā€™s. ---
**Author:** ![mayagryph](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/mayagryph/32/281_2.png) [@mayagryph](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/mayagryph)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2020, 5:40pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/3 "2020-04-24T17:40:15Z")
thanks!!! iā€™ll check them both out šŸ˜Œ šŸ˜Œ ---
**Author:** ![plumpuddin](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/plumpuddin/32/181_2.png) [@plumpuddin](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/plumpuddin)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2020, 8:09am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/4 "2020-04-25T08:09:44Z")
Iā€™d definitely recommend trying out wands!! In my experience it may take a few tries to find the right one for you. Iā€™ve never tried the Pillow Talk but I agree with Jason about Ollie! Itā€™s beautiful, smooth, powerfully rumbly, and comes in two lovely shades of blue. Itā€™s $74 though so not sure if thatā€™s something within your price range. Also, itā€™s pretty loud. I live with family as well but donā€™t have problems when using it behind closed doors or in the shower. Another recommendation- the Sola Sync is a whisper quiet wand that I have and love. Itā€™s pricier though, with $119 being the current sale price on Peepshow Toys (itā€™s not currently available on Spectrum). It has lots of neat features and is very rumbly, so if youā€™re ever in the market for a pricier, super quiet wand, this one may be worth checking out. Definitely take a look at Spectrumā€™s available wands! There are quite a few to choose from. If any catch your eye, you could always ask for opinions on it here. ---
**Author:** ![Cbiggs6](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/df705f/32.png) [@Cbiggs6](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Cbiggs6)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2020, 8:01pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/5 "2020-04-26T20:01:36Z")
Get yourself a wand, something with a few different speeds. That thing will get you squirting all over the place. Maybe insert the dildo then use massager on your clit, you will be happy ---
**Author:** ![tallasianchick](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/tallasianchick/32/161_2.png) [@tallasianchick](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/tallasianchick)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2020, 4:22pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/6 "2020-04-27T16:22:07Z")
I have the Ollie from unboundbabes too and, it is not only cheap, but use the code ILAH10 to get $10 off your first order šŸ˜ƒ Itā€™s super strong and also really useful for my tight muscles, even though they donā€™t recommend it as a ā€œmassager.ā€ Listenā€¦ My disabled ass will find any way to reduce my physical pain. ---
**Author:** ![Jason](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/jason/32/259_2.png) [@Jason](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Jason)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2020, 12:40am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/7 "2020-04-28T00:40:59Z")
OH SNAP I FORGOT IT COULD BE A MASSAGER TOO! But yeah I love the patterns on it. High and low are fine. But the patterns that build up from low to high and have short bursts of power, ah itā€™s bliss šŸ„° šŸ„“ ---
**Author:** ![LisaW](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/lisaw/32/33_2.png) [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2020, 10:47pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/8 "2020-04-30T22:47:58Z")
I use my wand massager on my neck, shoulders and arm muscles all the time! Love a good multipurpose tool! ---
**Author:** ![elle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ccd318/32.png) [@elle](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/elle)\ **Post date:** [May 4, 2020, 4:23am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/9 "2020-05-04T04:23:35Z")
Does anyone know if there is a wand equivalent to the nofrilldo (i.e. cheap but works well)? ---
**Author:** ![LisaW](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/lisaw/32/33_2.png) [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2020, 7:30am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/10 "2020-05-05T07:30:00Z")
I havenā€™t heard the term nofrilldo but I love it, hahaha. The one I use most often was cheaper but they stopped making it, booo. Was the Lovehoney collaboration they did with Broad City, ha, which made me laugh but itā€™s a rechargeable one with multiple speeds and rhythms for under $50 so could care less about the ā€œYAS KWEENā€ branding, ha. I did find a similar one on Spectrum to mine that I really love: [https://spectrumboutique.com/pillow-talk-cheeky-silicone-rechargeable-massager.html](https://spectrumboutique.com/pillow-talk-cheeky-silicone-rechargeable-massager.html) Iā€™ve heard good things about the palm power pocket, but I personally need something longer, but good for palm size: [https://spectrumboutique.com/palm-power-pocket-mini-rechargeable-massager.html](https://spectrumboutique.com/palm-power-pocket-mini-rechargeable-massager.html) And the cheapest I saw of the bunch that seems like it packs a punch: [https://spectrumboutique.com/simple-true-charmer-powerful-cordless-massager.html](https://spectrumboutique.com/simple-true-charmer-powerful-cordless-massager.html) I personally like rechargeable but that cost more, and a more moveable neck (also more) but for the price that looks promising! ---
**Author:** ![mayagryph](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/mayagryph/32/281_2.png) [@mayagryph](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/mayagryph)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2020, 10:27am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/11 "2020-05-05T10:27:08Z")
wow thank you so much, this is a great list! lovehoney can be a lifesaver when it comes to cheaper but still decent quality toys! ---
**Author:** ![nineleaf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90ced4/32.png) [@nineleaf](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/nineleaf)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2020, 10:43pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/12 "2020-05-05T22:43:40Z")
I splurged on a rechargeable Hitachi to support my local sex toy store during lockdown. Best decision I ever made and I got it for a song! Itā€™s great solo and with partners. Itā€™s also a genuinely great massager. It feels amazing on my tight WFH shoulders. I was so proud putting the box in the communal recycling. I believe it has a lifetime warranty as well? But there are lots of good variations on the original. Go for it! ---
**Author:** ![elle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ccd318/32.png) [@elle](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/elle)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2020, 2:07pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/should-i-get-a-wand/556/13 "2020-05-09T14:07:52Z")
omg broad city!!! the best show ever!! i wish they were still making the wands (and the show lol) Thanks for the suggestions!