# Seeking Very Specific Dildo Recommendations

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**Created:** [November 27, 2020, 8:02pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/seeking-very-specific-dildo-recommendations/1638 "2020-11-27T20:02:36Z")\
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**Author:** ![goatgoat](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/goatgoat/32/632_2.png) [@goatgoat](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/goatgoat)\
**Post date:** [November 27, 2020, 8:02pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/seeking-very-specific-dildo-recommendations/1638/1 "2020-11-27T20:02:36Z")

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Hi all, I’m writing cause I’m seeking very specific dildo recommendations and I’m wondering if someone might help. I’m a trans woman with a penis, I like to penetrate my partners, and I like to be able to use a toy. I don’t mind just mashing my own genitals down to wear a harness with a dildo, but in the past I’ve used a hollow vibrating dildo that I could actually wear around my own genitals with a packing harness, and I’m trying to find a toy that can create that experience but that also:

- doesn’t come pre-attached to a harness (from what I’ve been able to find there are plenty of hollow dildos but are marketed towards cis men who are assumed not to own a harness. Also, a “ball strap” will not work)
- is easy to clean/sanitize (see: doesn’t come attached to its own harness lol)
- vibrates

My thought is that there might be a dildo with a cavity for an insertable bullet vibe that somehow has space for both a penis _and_ a bullet vibe, but at this point I’m really over my head in trying to research and hoping someone has a recommendation for me?

Thank you!

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**Author:** ![MakeUpAndSin](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/makeupandsin/32/359_2.png) [@MakeUpAndSin](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/MakeUpAndSin)\
**Post date:** [December 1, 2020, 8:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/seeking-very-specific-dildo-recommendations/1638/2 "2020-12-01T20:25:31Z")

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The only toy I can think of that might accommodate that is the [BJ dildo](https://spectrumboutique.com/b-j-dildo.html) but it depends on your anatomy if you’d actually fit in the toy. This might have to be custom made.