# New to toys— advice would be appreciated **URL:** \ **Category:** General Information\ **Created:** [May 7, 2020, 4:32am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665 "2020-05-07T04:32:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![spicygordita](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/spicygordita/32/320_2.png) [@spicygordita](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/spicygordita)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2020, 4:32am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665/1 "2020-05-07T04:32:49Z")
Hey y’all 🙂 I’m new ish to toys and I would like some advice, if you don’t mind! I won a womanizer from a giveaway, and it’s the only toy i’ve ever used. I had it for a short time, maybe two months, and it’s broken. I wanted to buy something new anyways, I pretty much never personally do anything internal, unless my partner is doing it himself. I stick to my clit area during solo time. But i’d like the option to explore g-spot toys. any advice for a toy that can be use internally or externally, is beginner friendly, is somewhat quiet (i don’t live alone!), and is rechargeable? Thank you 🙏🏽 ---
**Author:** ![plumpuddin](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/plumpuddin/32/181_2.png) [@plumpuddin](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/plumpuddin)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2020, 11:59am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665/2 "2020-05-07T11:59:06Z")
Welcome! It’s great that you’re looking to try new things. Unfortunately, I don’t do internal stimulation, so I don’t personally have a toy to recommend in this situation. As far as materials go, silicone is always a great beginner option. It’s sterilizable, flexible, and can come in a wide variety of shapes, densities, and colors. Spectrum has a pretty big g-spot toy section! Does anything look appealing? [https://spectrumboutique.com/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators?p=1](https://spectrumboutique.com/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators?p=1) ---
**Author:** ![elle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ccd318/32.png) [@elle](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/elle)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2020, 2:11pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665/3 "2020-05-09T14:11:29Z")
Bender from Unbound Babes is a really great g-spot vibrator, it bends to fit your body 🙂 Quiet, rechargeable, and made by a feminist company like Spectrum! ---
**Author:** ![plumpuddin](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/plumpuddin/32/181_2.png) [@plumpuddin](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/plumpuddin)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2020, 12:15pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665/4 "2020-05-10T12:15:57Z")
That’s a great suggestion, @elle! I haven’t tried Bender but I am a fan of Unbound in general. ---
**Author:** ![LisaW](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/lisaw/32/33_2.png) [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Post date:** [May 11, 2020, 12:31pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665/5 "2020-05-11T12:31:22Z")
First off, welcome! I too am a stick to the clit during solo time type of person, but also prefer having something that can be used with a partner for internal action as well. I’ve pulled a top 3 that I think will fit your bill 🙂 In no particular order… _drumroll, please_ 1. Wellness G-Ball. The curve is perfect for g-spot, and besides vibrating it also has a rolling ball motion for extra sensation. I also like the wider head, perfect for direct stimulation against your clit. [https://spectrumboutique.com/blush-wellness-rolling-g-ball-vibrator.html](https://spectrumboutique.com/blush-wellness-rolling-g-ball-vibrator.html) 2. Svakom Cici. More petite but still packs a punch with multiple vibration and intensity modes. I love that this one is totally bendable, so lots to work with, and love the ribbed head, which alone is great for direct contact. [https://spectrumboutique.com/svakom-cici-slim-bendy-rechargeable-vibrator.html](https://spectrumboutique.com/svakom-cici-slim-bendy-rechargeable-vibrator.html) 3. Pillow Talk Sassy! A classic. Perfect shape for g-spot stimulation, but a bigger head for that direct external stimulation directly against the clit. [https://spectrumboutique.com/pillow-talk-sassy-silicone-rechargeable-vibrator.html](https://spectrumboutique.com/pillow-talk-sassy-silicone-rechargeable-vibrator.html) All are rechargeable. And the first two come with warranties, so no worries if they break down on ya! ---
**Author:** ![MandM](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex029/user_avatar/forum.spectrumboutique.com/mandm/32/254_2.png) [@MandM](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/MandM)\ **Post date:** [May 12, 2020, 1:09am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-to-toys-advice-would-be-appreciated/665/6 "2020-05-12T01:09:36Z")
It would be really cool if companies did a “try before you buy” thing like amazon wardrobe. Some of the toys can get pretty pricey! And if you don’t like them, well you’re fucked! Pun intended.