# Latest **URL:** https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=5 [Latest](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/categories.md) **Page:** 6 --- ## [Trans-friendly wearables - recommendations?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/trans-friendly-wearables-recommendations/3554)
**Author:** [@sweetbush](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/sweetbush)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [December 5, 2021, 1:22am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/trans-friendly-wearables-recommendations/3554 "2021-12-05T01:22:33Z")
I’m a 24 year-old transmasculine person who’s recently been realizing how un-sexy I feel in pretty much all of my boring stuff - I don’t really have any clothes or undergarments that I feel sexy in. I don’t really know o… --- ## [Pris Toy Review: An Out of this World Dildo](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/pris-toy-review-an-out-of-this-world-dildo/3538)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [December 1, 2021, 12:01am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/pris-toy-review-an-out-of-this-world-dildo/3538 "2021-12-01T00:01:53Z")
Hey all! @MakeUpAndSin has a review up on Journal of Pris Toys, a new independent company that creates some truly beautiful handmade dildos and plugs. Carly has the full run down of their toys below, but let me just say… --- ## [Huge Winter Sales at Spectrum! Get Some New Toys Now!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/huge-winter-sales-at-spectrum-get-some-new-toys-now/3527)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [November 26, 2021, 7:06pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/huge-winter-sales-at-spectrum-get-some-new-toys-now/3527 "2021-11-26T19:06:10Z")
Hey all! We’re kicking off some major sales over on the site today, including deep discounts on some of our favorite brands. Wanted to make sure everyone in the Forum knew about these deals so you can snag some great gif… --- ## [Holiday Flash Sales!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/holiday-flash-sales/3473)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [November 26, 2021, 5:41pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/holiday-flash-sales/3473 "2021-11-26T17:41:24Z")
Hey all! As we kick off the holiday shopping season, we’ve got some great flash sales lined up for everyone. I’ll keep ya posted here what all they are, and add to the thread. And don’t forget to shop for yourself too, w… --- ## [Follow my instagram](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/follow-my-instagram/3503)
**Author:** [@lucid\_dreaming](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/lucid_dreaming)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 22, 2021, 2:02pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/follow-my-instagram/3503 "2021-11-22T14:02:49Z")
HEY LOVELIES! I’m trying to grow my instagram account so my ambassador-ship can grow and develop! My account name is @willow.pillow111!!! THANK YOU :heart::heart::heart: --- ## [I'm an ambassador for the kinky peach 🍑](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/im-an-ambassador-for-the-kinky-peach/3494)
**Author:** [@lucid\_dreaming](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/lucid_dreaming)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 20, 2021, 10:45pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/im-an-ambassador-for-the-kinky-peach/3494 "2021-11-20T22:45:12Z")
Hey, sluts!! I am so excited to announce that I am now a proud ambassador of the independently-owned sex toy brand The Kinky Peach (the.kinky.peach on Instagram)!!! I am so excited to be dipping my toes in the sex/sex to… --- ## [Giveaway: Win a Kink Power Banger](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/giveaway-win-a-kink-power-banger/3493)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 19, 2021, 11:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/giveaway-win-a-kink-power-banger/3493 "2021-11-19T23:25:13Z")
We’ve got a giveaway happening over on the Spectrum Instagram page that is too good not to share with the Forum crew too. :wink: You can win a Kink Power Banger! If you’re not familiar with it, the Kink Power Banger is … --- ## [Inexpensive Penis Toy Reviews](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inexpensive-penis-toy-reviews/3492)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 19, 2021, 11:18pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inexpensive-penis-toy-reviews/3492 "2021-11-19T23:18:46Z")
Hey everyone, hope your weekend is off to a great start! Wanted to share our latest review article up over on Spectrum Journal. Bobby Box is reviewing inexpensive penis toys, including a great stroke rating scale … --- ## [2021 Spicy Holiday Shopping Guide](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/2021-spicy-holiday-shopping-guide/3460)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 10, 2021, 5:42pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/2021-spicy-holiday-shopping-guide/3460 "2021-11-10T17:42:24Z")
Hey everyone! The holiday season is right around the corner (or here if you’ve already decorated, ha). And with all the shipping delays across the globe, lots of folks are shopping ahead this year. So we’ve got an early … --- ## [Nonbinary? Boy And Girl? How Do You Explore Gender](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/nonbinary-boy-and-girl-how-do-you-explore-gender/2014)
**Author:** [@Emma](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Emma)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [November 6, 2021, 4:47am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/nonbinary-boy-and-girl-how-do-you-explore-gender/2014 "2021-11-06T04:47:08Z")
For awhile I’ve felt that I fit into both boy and girl but also felt like neither. But ive judged these thoughts away and feel not “queer enough” to explore gender. @lucid\_dreaming talked about this topic but i was wond… --- ## [Can anybody help out a demisexual BDSM newbie?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/can-anybody-help-out-a-demisexual-bdsm-newbie/2133)
**Author:** [@SkullGruntKitten](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/SkullGruntKitten)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [November 6, 2021, 4:46am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/can-anybody-help-out-a-demisexual-bdsm-newbie/2133 "2021-11-06T04:46:10Z")
Hiya! I am a demisexual chick with a few prominent kinks, but up until recently they’ve been the sort of kinks that don’t really play out in the bedroom. I am very fond of bondage, but I don’t really like to participate … --- ## [Am I trans? (TRANSgender norms + feeling like I'm losing myself)](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/am-i-trans-transgender-norms-feeling-like-im-losing-myself/1992)
**Author:** [@lucid\_dreaming](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/lucid_dreaming)\ **Replies:** 15\ **Last updated:** [November 6, 2021, 4:41am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/am-i-trans-transgender-norms-feeling-like-im-losing-myself/1992 "2021-11-06T04:41:35Z")
I guess shame and guilt has been a prominent emotion for me lately for a multitude of reasons. I have struggled with my gender identity for quite a long time now, with my self-discovery being put on the back burner on mu… --- ## [Paying For Pleasure: Where to Ethically Buy Your Porn](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/paying-for-pleasure-where-to-ethically-buy-your-porn/3378)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 2, 2021, 4:15pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/paying-for-pleasure-where-to-ethically-buy-your-porn/3378 "2021-11-02T16:15:58Z")
Hey all! We’re discussing how to ethically consume porn and some great places to purchase porn and support performers over on Spectrum Journal today. I know we’ve chatted about favorite porn sites before, this is a great… --- ## [Strap-On Help: Harnesses/Bumpers](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strap-on-help-harnesses-bumpers/3367)
**Author:** [@abrowningm17](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/abrowningm17)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2021, 10:35pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strap-on-help-harnesses-bumpers/3367 "2021-10-29T22:35:58Z")
My wife and I recently got really into strap on play but we need to find a harness that is easier to get on and off but also is functional and looks good. We also are wondering if anyone has any insight into how strap on… --- ## [Spooky Bones Weekend Flash Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spooky-bones-weekend-flash-sale/3368)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2021, 10:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spooky-bones-weekend-flash-sale/3368 "2021-10-29T22:12:46Z")
OK, so our team is obsessed with Noodles the pug (google bones day if you aren’t familiar with this cuteness), and given it’s the spookiest of bones weekends, we decided to celebrate with a fun little flash sale over on … --- ## [SEXUAL TRAUMA Advice](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sexual-trauma-advice/3336)
**Author:** [@Strawberry](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Strawberry)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [October 28, 2021, 2:14pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sexual-trauma-advice/3336 "2021-10-28T14:14:11Z")
Hello hello, I have a sex problem and I feel like you could possibly point me in the right direction. I’ve had a lot of sex trauma in my life, starting when I was young and when I starting doing things consensually I no… --- ## [Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage and Shibari: Midori interview](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/seductive-art-of-japanese-bondage-and-shibari-midori-interview/3360)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 27, 2021, 9:55pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/seductive-art-of-japanese-bondage-and-shibari-midori-interview/3360 "2021-10-27T21:55:30Z")
Hey all! If you aren’t familiar with Midori, she wrote THE book on shibari and is just an incredible educator. To celebrate her iconic book, Spectrum’s own Zoe Ligon interviewed Midori over on Spectrum Journal. It’s a wo… --- ## [The Joys of Watersports](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-joys-of-watersports/3337)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [October 21, 2021, 1:02am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-joys-of-watersports/3337 "2021-10-21T01:02:55Z")
Hey all! Back with a popular topic today over on the Journal: golden showers! Tina Horn writes about her own experience with piss play, it’s a great POV and super insightful. Has anyone here enjoyed piss play or been in… --- ## [My boyfriend used to tie me up](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/my-boyfriend-used-to-tie-me-up/3330)
**Author:** [@Flamingo13](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Flamingo13)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [October 20, 2021, 8:09pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/my-boyfriend-used-to-tie-me-up/3330 "2021-10-20T20:09:49Z")
My boyfriend used to tie me up often before we became a lot more serious and moved in together. Now he has no interest in rope play, and I am basically begging him. It makes me feel so good and free. Why is he not intere… --- ## [Can’t find a vibrator that satisfies me](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/can-t-find-a-vibrator-that-satisfies-me/1866)
**Author:** [@frustrated](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/frustrated)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2021, 10:41am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/can-t-find-a-vibrator-that-satisfies-me/1866 "2021-10-16T10:41:47Z")
I am so frustrated. I had a vibrator that I loved I think it was called the chocolate bunny it looked like a black mans penis and the rabbit ears were to hard a fast I had so many orgasms I could not keep track. But it q… --- ## [Masturbating With ADHD](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/masturbating-with-adhd/1985)
**Author:** [@Emma](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Emma)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [October 16, 2021, 1:57am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/masturbating-with-adhd/1985 "2021-10-16T01:57:38Z")
I’ve recently been overcoming some obstacles with masturbation and just the whole idea that sex doesnt have to end with an orgasm and pleasure can come in many different forms! Oh my god It just makes me happy to know se… --- ## [Sexy Lingerie for Transmasculine People?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sexy-lingerie-for-transmasculine-people/3268)
**Author:** [@Goblin373](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Goblin373)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [October 9, 2021, 4:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sexy-lingerie-for-transmasculine-people/3268 "2021-10-09T16:56:34Z")
Hello there! I just started my first relationship, which is absolutely amazing! But it’s also got me asking myself a lot of questions I didn’t consider before. For example, we are currently long distance, but planning t… --- ## [Southern Butter Lube Review](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/southern-butter-lube-review/3284)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 5, 2021, 10:15pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/southern-butter-lube-review/3284 "2021-10-05T22:15:15Z")
Hey everyone. @MakeUpAndSin has a new review up over on Spectrum Journal, this time writing up the wonderful lubes from Southern Butter! If you all haven’t checked out this very rad brand, this article is a must read. A… --- ## [Mustang Vixen Dildo for pegging?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/mustang-vixen-dildo-for-pegging/3254)
**Author:** [@Bigwhip2u](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Bigwhip2u)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [September 29, 2021, 11:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/mustang-vixen-dildo-for-pegging/3254 "2021-09-29T23:25:08Z")
Just purchased the Mustang Vixen for strap on pegging play from my wife. Does anyone have experience with this particular dildo for strap on play? --- ## [Magic Wand Interview!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/magic-wand-interview/3267)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 29, 2021, 11:02pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/magic-wand-interview/3267 "2021-09-29T23:02:03Z")
Hey all! Did you know the classic Magic Wand shape has been around since 1968? A true testament to the idea if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it, eh? We have a super cool interview about the iconic and beloved Magic Wand wit… --- ## [Advocating For The Sex-Workplace](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/advocating-for-the-sex-workplace/3262)
**Author:** [@Good-Ideas-Bad-Ideas](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Good-Ideas-Bad-Ideas)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [September 29, 2021, 10:57pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/advocating-for-the-sex-workplace/3262 "2021-09-29T22:57:43Z")
Hi SB! I work as a peer mentor for neurodivergent students, it’s my job to help them achieve their goals. One of my students is studying user experience design, and they’re really interested in designing digital spaces … --- ## [Book it! 10 life-consuming queer books you haven’t read yet](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/book-it-10-life-consuming-queer-books-you-haven-t-read-yet/3248)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 22, 2021, 8:13pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/book-it-10-life-consuming-queer-books-you-haven-t-read-yet/3248 "2021-09-22T20:13:03Z")
Hey all! Hope your first few days of fall are going good (it’s perfect sweater weather here in the Midwest). It’s my favorite season to curl up with a good book, and we’ve got a great list of titles to check out over on … --- ## [Lack of libido and confused on what to do](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lack-of-libido-and-confused-on-what-to-do/3213)
**Author:** [@clown](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/clown)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [September 15, 2021, 10:44pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lack-of-libido-and-confused-on-what-to-do/3213 "2021-09-15T22:44:57Z")
First post :confused: eek I’m a 22 year old female who has been on the nuva ring for about 2 months now. I have been experiencing a lack of libido recently, which I feel is either caused by the nuvaring, stress, or both… --- ## [So You Want to Wash Your Ass: Enemas for Anal Play](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/so-you-want-to-wash-your-ass-enemas-for-anal-play/3210)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 13, 2021, 3:49pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/so-you-want-to-wash-your-ass-enemas-for-anal-play/3210 "2021-09-13T15:49:15Z")
Hold onto your butts (literally)! Sex worker and educator Corey More has a great guide over on Journal about keeping your butt fresh, clean and ready for fun! Corey answers questions about enemas, and also just some gene… --- ## [Let's talk Edging!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lets-talk-edging/2162)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [September 12, 2021, 8:16pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lets-talk-edging/2162 "2021-09-12T20:16:09Z")
We’ve got a new topic written up over on Spectrum Journal that we’ve talked about some on the forum, so let’s dive into Edging! Marcus K. Dowling not only covers the idea of Edging itself, but talks about the benefits fr… [Previous page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=4) [Next page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=6)