# Latest **URL:** https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=3 [Latest](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/categories.md) **Page:** 4 --- ## [Huge Svakom giveaway over on Spectrum Instagram!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/huge-svakom-giveaway-over-on-spectrum-instagram/4200)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 21, 2022, 7:00pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/huge-svakom-giveaway-over-on-spectrum-instagram/4200 "2022-05-21T19:00:06Z")
We’re hosting a massive giveaway of Svakom goodies over on our Instagram right now! Two winners will each receive six tantalizing toys from Svakom’s stroker and cock ring collection. Head over to our IG to find out how … --- ## [Je Joue Toy Retrospective & Review](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/je-joue-toy-retrospective-review/4191)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 18, 2022, 8:13pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/je-joue-toy-retrospective-review/4191 "2022-05-18T20:13:07Z")
Valentine is an educator at Spectrum who has been selling sex toys for over 15 years! For their recent Spectrum Journal review, they share what has made Je Joue such an all star brand throughout the years. From their ru… --- ## [Freaky Friday the 13th Flash Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/freaky-friday-the-13th-flash-sale/4182)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 13, 2022, 5:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/freaky-friday-the-13th-flash-sale/4182 "2022-05-13T17:56:34Z")
Happy Friday the 13th! Get 13% percent off your purchase all day to celebrate a very cursed blessed day. As a Friday the 13th baby (Yup!) I totally think it’s the perfect way to celebrate :slight\_smile: Details are belo… --- ## [Too Tight Vaginas](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/too-tight-vaginas/4151)
**Author:** [@candywarhol](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/candywarhol)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [May 10, 2022, 3:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/too-tight-vaginas/4151 "2022-05-10T15:12:22Z")
Hi all! I wanted to ask for your advice on how to enlarge a vagina with the least painful and most economical ways. I cant even insert tampons in due to pain and the fear of pain. I just got a size 3 dilator. Im not sure… --- ## [The Art of Negotiation with Midori](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-art-of-negotiation-with-midori/4149)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 3, 2022, 1:15pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-art-of-negotiation-with-midori/4149 "2022-05-03T13:15:06Z")
The always amazing Midori (if you aren’t familiar with her, check her out) has a super rad and informational article over on Spectrum Journal that highlights the art of negotiation and consent. “Before you begin with yo… --- ## [Strapless strap-on tips/suggestions?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strapless-strap-on-tips-suggestions/4110)
**Author:** [@chelonia](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/chelonia)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [April 21, 2022, 8:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strapless-strap-on-tips-suggestions/4110 "2022-04-21T20:12:09Z")
Hi! I’ve tried a strapless strap-on before with mediocre success. I’ve seen reviews from the sex toy bloggers and my fave sex ed YouTubers and my friends all with about the same experience. But it’s something that I stil… --- ## [High Five! 15% off purchases today only](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/high-five-15-off-purchases-today-only/4117)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 21, 2022, 7:40pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/high-five-15-off-purchases-today-only/4117 "2022-04-21T19:40:12Z")
We love any excuse for a flash sale, haha, and also really love giving a hand ( :stuck\_out\_tongue\_winking\_eye:), so celebrate High Five Day (yup, it’s a real thing!) with 15% off your purchase. Today only (4/21) until 11… --- ## [Hoppy Easter! 15% off All Rabbits today only](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/hoppy-easter-15-off-all-rabbits-today-only/4105)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 17, 2022, 5:33pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/hoppy-easter-15-off-all-rabbits-today-only/4105 "2022-04-17T17:33:57Z")
We have something special in your Easter basket this morning: 15% off all rabbit toys! Details are below, valid only today. You can find our rabbit toys here: bit.ly/3xyvFQp And have to shout a few favorites that aren’t… --- ## [20% off all Blush toys through 4/30!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/20-off-all-blush-toys-through-4-30/4095)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 14, 2022, 6:15am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/20-off-all-blush-toys-through-4-30/4095 "2022-04-14T06:15:21Z")
Happy April, everyone! Celebrate spring with 20% off all Blush toys through the end of the month! :partying\_face: Details are in the image below with the promo code to use. Need a few suggestions? Here are a few Blush f… --- ## [Collar Sale today only for National Pet Day!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/collar-sale-today-only-for-national-pet-day/4089)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 11, 2022, 3:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/collar-sale-today-only-for-national-pet-day/4089 "2022-04-11T15:12:13Z")
Happy Monday, everyone! Today is national pet day, and of course we figured the best way to celebrate is by offering a discount on all our collars today :stuck\_out\_tongue\_winking\_eye: Get 20% off with the code “GoodPup”… --- ## [Unremarkable orgasms?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/unremarkable-orgasms/4070)
**Author:** [@soap](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/soap)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 6, 2022, 7:29pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/unremarkable-orgasms/4070 "2022-04-06T19:29:27Z")
For all my life, orgasms haven’t been mindblowing for me like I’ve heard them described. I’m DFAB and the sensation of coming has just been like a core tightening squeeze. It’s never been anything particularly more than … --- ## [Sugarless Flavored lube](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sugarless-flavored-lube/4052)
**Author:** [@Electrical17](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Electrical17)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [April 1, 2022, 6:08pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sugarless-flavored-lube/4052 "2022-04-01T18:08:15Z")
My partner tends to be senaitive and has problems getting frequent UTIs. She loves flavored lubes but they always cause her issues afrerwards. I remember a story post in the IG Q&A listing off some sugarless options that… --- ## [Strap on use for beginners?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strap-on-use-for-beginners/4048)
**Author:** [@rageeatingcereal](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/rageeatingcereal)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 31, 2022, 11:14pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strap-on-use-for-beginners/4048 "2022-03-31T23:14:57Z")
It has been a lifelong dream of mine to use a strap on! I have never had the chance… until now! My girlfriend is trans, and we have been discussing more recently starting to explore me lassy’s booty. However, medically … --- ## [How do you recycle your toys?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-do-you-recycle-your-toys/1175)
**Author:** [@dwdw](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/dwdw)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [March 31, 2022, 10:43pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-do-you-recycle-your-toys/1175 "2022-03-31T22:43:22Z")
Hi! A toy I bought a few years from Spectrum will no longer charge. I want to recycle it responsibly, but I cannot find any recycling programs for old sex toys. Any ideas? --- ## [How to approach anal with women](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-approach-anal-with-women/3667)
**Author:** [@Heyman2234](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Heyman2234)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [March 31, 2022, 3:19am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-approach-anal-with-women/3667 "2022-03-31T03:19:55Z")
I have been a fan of anal since the one time a female has let me try. However, since then I’ve been told by other women who normally do it that I’m too big for anal. Is there anything I could suggest that might make it e… --- ## [Vibrating Colours dildo](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibrating-colours-dildo/4017)
**Author:** [@P.n](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/P.n)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 24, 2022, 11:30pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibrating-colours-dildo/4017 "2022-03-24T23:30:50Z")
I purchased the Vibrating Colours Pleasures vibrating dildo, and pardon my ignorance, but I have looked everywhere on the dildo to plug in the charger. And I can’t find it. :joy::joy::woman\_facepalming:t2: There are no… --- ## [Boyfriend premature ejaculation- advice?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/boyfriend-premature-ejaculation-advice/3989)
**Author:** [@Nnr](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Nnr)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [March 22, 2022, 7:52pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/boyfriend-premature-ejaculation-advice/3989 "2022-03-22T19:52:28Z")
New relationship with a wonderful man. He has recently confided that he has a history of premature ejaculation. Each time we have had sex, he climaxes within 3 minutes. He is open to trying all things to address this. Th… --- ## [Advice on being more dominant](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/advice-on-being-more-dominant/3990)
**Author:** [@tatamigalaxy](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/tatamigalaxy)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 22, 2022, 7:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/advice-on-being-more-dominant/3990 "2022-03-22T19:10:51Z")
Top leaning switch here, I came on here for advice on learning to be more dominant with my boyfriend while we are sexting/having sex. I tend to be on the softer and sweet side when it comes to intimate times like that be… --- ## [Strongest wand?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-wand/3983)
**Author:** [@Electrical17](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Electrical17)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 22, 2022, 6:47pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-wand/3983 "2022-03-22T18:47:11Z")
The first wand i bought my partner was the Lovense Domi 2. Then recently i purchased the Le Wand limited edition unicorn wand. To my surprise, though she loves the Unicorn wand she said her domi is alot stronger. So im l… --- ## [Spring has sprung! 30% off all Romp toys to celebrate](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-30-off-all-romp-toys-to-celebrate/4003)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 21, 2022, 1:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-30-off-all-romp-toys-to-celebrate/4003 "2022-03-21T13:10:42Z")
Happy Monday everyone, and happy spring! To celebrate the spring equinox, we’re giving everyone 30% off all ROMP toys with code “SPRINGROMP” at checkout. You can check out the Romp toys here. If you’ve been curious about… --- ## [Pi Day Sale! Today only](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/pi-day-sale-today-only/3980)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 14, 2022, 2:54pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/pi-day-sale-today-only/3980 "2022-03-14T14:54:13Z")
Happy Monday everyone, and happy Pi Day! Take 14% off today on 3/14 with the code “PIDAY” over on our site. This is the perfect way to grab a new toy you’ve been checking out, perhaps a new girthy friend from Zoe’s late… --- ## [Flash Sale! 25% off Rosales sucking vibe 🌺](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-25-off-rosales-sucking-vibe/3972)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 12, 2022, 5:33pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-25-off-rosales-sucking-vibe/3972 "2022-03-12T17:33:49Z")
It’s National Plant A Flower Day! To celebrate, take 25% off Rosales by InBloom. This rose sucking vibrator creates a sensation unlike any other toy. Use code “PlantAFlower” today only, 3/12, until 11:59pm EST. Promotio… --- ## [The BIG toy review: Girthy favorites!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-big-toy-review-girthy-favorites/3954)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 8, 2022, 1:37am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-big-toy-review-girthy-favorites/3954 "2022-03-08T01:37:51Z")
Hey all! For all you BIG fans out there, we have a great new guide up over on Spectrum Journal. Our very own founder Zoë Ligon discusses her favorite girthy toys and suggestions for big toy play, from a dildo that looks… --- ## [Flash Sale! Save 25% on the Ultimate Fantasy Dual Stimulator](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-save-25-on-the-ultimate-fantasy-dual-stimulator/3953)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 8, 2022, 1:30am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-save-25-on-the-ultimate-fantasy-dual-stimulator/3953 "2022-03-08T01:30:32Z")
Hey everyone! We’ve got one of those flash sales I mentioned last week live now over on the spectrum site! If you have been wanting to check out the Ultimate Fantasy Stimulator, now is your chance to give it a go and sav… --- ## [Unique toy idea. Never seen before. I needdd so bad in my life. Plz](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/unique-toy-idea-never-seen-before-i-needdd-so-bad-in-my-life-plz/3946)
**Author:** [@KittyLover](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/KittyLover)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 5, 2022, 3:57am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/unique-toy-idea-never-seen-before-i-needdd-so-bad-in-my-life-plz/3946 "2022-03-05T03:57:13Z")
I been searching the internet for days. Looking for the perfect toy for lesbian gf and I. we both really get turned off by the way male genitalia looks. She’s open to receiving penetration with toys as long as it’s an a… --- ## [Trans guy here with sex toy compatibility questions](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/trans-guy-here-with-sex-toy-compatibility-questions/3886)
**Author:** [@khiggins](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/khiggins)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [March 3, 2022, 2:20pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/trans-guy-here-with-sex-toy-compatibility-questions/3886 "2022-03-03T14:20:10Z")
You can literally skip all of this if the answer to this question is NO: Do silicone PROSTHETICS (not asking about silicone LUBE) damage TPE and/or vice-versa? I’m a bi 28 year old white trans dude with ADHD & ausitsm,… --- ## [InBloom sale! Spring is here! (Almost, haha)](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inbloom-sale-spring-is-here-almost-haha/3940)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 2, 2022, 4:31pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inbloom-sale-spring-is-here-almost-haha/3940 "2022-03-02T16:31:42Z")
Hey everyone! Spring is in the air, so we’re having an InBloom sale over on our site! :cherry\_blossom::hibiscus::sunflower: When checking out, use the code “BloomFree” to get buy 2 get 1 free, OR use the code “SpringBlo… --- ## [Lubes with a good consitency](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lubes-with-a-good-consitency/3924)
**Author:** [@Electrical17](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Electrical17)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 2, 2022, 4:13pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lubes-with-a-good-consitency/3924 "2022-03-02T16:13:47Z")
I’m looking for a lube with a similar consistency to Wicked:Simply Hybrid Jelle. The consistency is almost like aquafore or a&d. Me and my partner have found we love it for anal but the largest bottle i can find is 9oz. … --- ## [Male masturbation toys](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/male-masturbation-toys/3138)
**Author:** [@Steve7779](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Steve7779)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [February 24, 2022, 10:59am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/male-masturbation-toys/3138 "2022-02-24T10:59:13Z")
I was wondering if anybody has any suggestions about a good masturbator to purchase. I’m looking for something to pleasure myself while my girlfriend is out of town on business which is frequently. I am currently using a… --- ## [Sex Myths: Let's Myth Bust!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sex-myths-lets-myth-bust/2404)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [February 22, 2022, 10:54pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sex-myths-lets-myth-bust/2404 "2022-02-22T22:54:44Z")
So, after some recent discussions on here and with some friends IRL, I’ve been thinking about the things we might have been told or “learned” early on about sex that now we know are SO not true. So I think it’s time to h… [Previous page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=2) [Next page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=4)