# Latest

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## [Free orgasm workshop with Fun Factory (including raffle and special discount code!)](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-orgasm-workshop-with-fun-factory-including-raffle-and-special-discount-code/4967)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [May 22, 2023, 4:46pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-orgasm-workshop-with-fun-factory-including-raffle-and-special-discount-code/4967 "2023-05-22T16:46:30Z")

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Hey all! Haven’t had an orgasm or bored with your usual routine? Or, just looking to supercharge your orgasms? Get out of your rut and expand your solo routine to find new routes to pleasure with a special orgasm worksh…

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## [Exhibitionism & starting my wife](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/exhibitionism-starting-my-wife/4947)

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**Author:** [@Play2time](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Play2time)\
**Replies:** 2\
**Last updated:** [May 21, 2023, 11:00am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/exhibitionism-starting-my-wife/4947 "2023-05-21T11:00:51Z")

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I love taking my wife to new heights of ecstacy She has Express how when she is feeling naught fantasies about sucking another man’s diy sheck while I penetrate her How do I make this a reality for her

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## [Weekend Stroker Flash Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/weekend-stroker-flash-sale/4963)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [May 20, 2023, 5:52pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/weekend-stroker-flash-sale/4963 "2023-05-20T17:52:20Z")

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:rotating\_light:Weekend Flash Sale!:rotating\_light: Save 30% on Zero Tolerance Strokers. Just the code “StrokeIt” at checkout! Buy here: https://spectrumboutique.com/catalogsearch/result/?q=“zero+tolerance” (Offer va…

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## [BOYSLUT interview with author Zachary Zane!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/boyslut-interview-with-author-zachary-zane/4960)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [May 17, 2023, 7:54pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/boyslut-interview-with-author-zachary-zane/4960 "2023-05-17T19:54:07Z")

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Happy hump day, everyone! We’ve got a great interview over on Spectrum Journal that just dropped. Lots of great insights about sexuality, masculinity, and dating from Zachary Zane, sex educator, columnist, event host, an…

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## [Let's talk about period sex](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lets-talk-about-period-sex/4943)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [May 3, 2023, 3:06pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lets-talk-about-period-sex/4943 "2023-05-03T15:06:24Z")

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Hey all! Hope May is off to a great start for ya. We’ve got a great recent article and topic over on Spectrum Journal: period sex! April Davis dives in to cover some of the cultural taboos and ins and outs of riding the…

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## [How can I tell when it is time to dispose of my stroker?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-can-i-tell-when-it-is-time-to-dispose-of-my-stroker/4930)

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**Author:** [@spanky](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/spanky)\
**Replies:** 2\
**Last updated:** [April 27, 2023, 3:30am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-can-i-tell-when-it-is-time-to-dispose-of-my-stroker/4930 "2023-04-27T03:30:35Z")

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Hello there. I have recently been experimenting and playing with masturbation strokers. I have a Tenga Spiral, a couple of Hedy eggs, a Tenga egg, and a couple others. The eggs, are advertised as single use, or limite…

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## [Flash Sale!🚨 40% off Romp, today only!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-40-off-romp-today-only/4938)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [April 26, 2023, 6:33pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-40-off-romp-today-only/4938 "2023-04-26T18:33:08Z")

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Hey all! Today only, save 40% on all Romp toys with the code “SpringRomp” at checkout: https://bit.ly/444O3yg Romp has some great air pressure toys if you’ve been wanting to check those type of toys out. Also if you’ve …

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## [Prostate wands / massagers?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/prostate-wands-massagers/4937)

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**Author:** [@Shawty23](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Shawty23)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [April 26, 2023, 2:42am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/prostate-wands-massagers/4937 "2023-04-26T02:42:10Z")

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Hey ya’ll, I am looking to purchase a massager for use with my chastity cage and prostate. Any good recommendations for wands / extensions / attachments / ect?

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## [Erectile Disfunction](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/erectile-disfunction/4923)

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**Author:** [@NoBetterMade](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/NoBetterMade)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [April 25, 2023, 9:34pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/erectile-disfunction/4923 "2023-04-25T21:34:44Z")

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend was unfortunately shot when he was younger and the bullet has effected the nerves in his legs which ultimately is effecting him from staying hard during sex. The chemistry is there but he’s havi…

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## [Strongest remote control vibe?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-remote-control-vibe/4925)

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**Author:** [@Sylvii](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Sylvii)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [April 20, 2023, 9:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-remote-control-vibe/4925 "2023-04-20T21:10:30Z")

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Hey there! I am looking for a remote control gspot and clitoral vibrator. This can be with an air pressure/suction function or not. Ideally hands free - something that can fit in one’s undies. I am wondering if anybody…

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## [Happy 4/20 specials!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-4-20-specials/4929)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [April 20, 2023, 8:52pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-4-20-specials/4929 "2023-04-20T20:52:31Z")

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Happy holidays to those who celebrate today. It’s also High Five Day, so we’re offering up 20% off all strokers, today only. Use the code “HighFive” at checkout: https://bit.ly/3MWwWZv Also make sure to check out our 4/…

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## [Spring has sprung 🌺 Shop the Spring Cleaning sale now!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-shop-the-spring-cleaning-sale-now/4899)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [April 3, 2023, 3:14pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-shop-the-spring-cleaning-sale-now/4899 "2023-04-03T15:14:10Z")

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Happy Spring everyone! (Even from a rainy and chilly Chicago, ha.) Spectrum is doing some spring cleaning and having a sale on some of our most popular toys right now. You can snag some of these cuties for up to 40% off!…

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## [How to protect your bed from WETNESS](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-protect-your-bed-from-wetness/4887)

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**Author:** [@misscocoloco](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/misscocoloco)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [March 26, 2023, 10:08pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-protect-your-bed-from-wetness/4887 "2023-03-26T22:08:37Z")

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Curious if anyone has a good/quiet solution for protecting the sheets/mattress during sex. I was very excited when I learned how to squirt but then it got a bit out of hand. I love it but the towels are just NOT cutting …

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## [Group Masterbating](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/group-masterbating/3201)

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**Author:** [@carguy](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/carguy)\
**Replies:** 5\
**Last updated:** [March 23, 2023, 10:26pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/group-masterbating/3201 "2023-03-23T22:26:37Z")

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Has any one ever masterbated with a group

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## [Yeast infection?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/yeast-infection/4878)

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**Author:** [@marissar](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/marissar)\
**Replies:** 4\
**Last updated:** [March 20, 2023, 9:28pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/yeast-infection/4878 "2023-03-20T21:28:17Z")

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I (cis female) have only had one sexual partner (cis male) and we’ve been together for over ten years. Within the past week or two, we’ve started to have sex more often (several nights a week as opposed to months without…

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## [Curious but fearful about anal](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/curious-but-fearful-about-anal/3907)

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**Author:** [@a\_rose](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/a_rose)\
**Replies:** 17\
**Last updated:** [March 20, 2023, 5:18pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/curious-but-fearful-about-anal/3907 "2023-03-20T17:18:58Z")

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Hi all, bio female here. I’m hoping for some information about anal to hopefully dispel my fears and anxieties about it. So many people talk about how pleasurable it is, and who doesn’t love pleasure? I’m curious about i…

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## [No tracking number provided](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/no-tracking-number-provided/4864)

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**Author:** [@Travis](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Travis)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [March 13, 2023, 3:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/no-tracking-number-provided/4864 "2023-03-13T15:25:27Z")

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Hi team, my partner ordered from this site for us and didnt recieve a tracking number for the purchase. I have the order number if that will help working out where it is. As he ordered 2 weeks ago i thought it would hav…

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## [Is there a term for this thing I like after foreplay?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/is-there-a-term-for-this-thing-i-like-after-foreplay/3984)

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**Author:** [@fallingover](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/fallingover)\
**Replies:** 5\
**Last updated:** [March 10, 2023, 9:26pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/is-there-a-term-for-this-thing-i-like-after-foreplay/3984 "2023-03-10T21:26:01Z")

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Hello! Weird title, I apologize lol :sweat\_smile: I haven’t posted here in a good while. I have a question that I seem to not find anything in particular that relates exactly to what I noticed I’ve began to enjoy as a re…

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## [FREE blow job virtual class for Steak and BJ day!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-blow-job-virtual-class-for-steak-and-bj-day/4855)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [March 10, 2023, 9:20pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-blow-job-virtual-class-for-steak-and-bj-day/4855 "2023-03-10T21:20:31Z")

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Hey everyone! Next week is one of my favorite tongue in cheek (no pun intended) holidays, Steak and BJ Day! To celebrate, Spectrum is offering a FREE virtual workshop, “Take the Job Out of Blow Job,” presented by Spect…

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## [Harness recommendations?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/harness-recommendations/4829)

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**Author:** [@gemsludge](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/gemsludge)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [February 27, 2023, 6:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/harness-recommendations/4829 "2023-02-27T18:25:03Z")

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figured i would hop on here and ask since i’ve been looking everywhere! my partner uses a strapon/harness during sex. they prefer boxer styles because they cover their rear end, but they recently discovered that they lik…

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## [Girlfriend giving head](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/girlfriend-giving-head/4809)

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**Author:** [@Bucky](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Bucky)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [February 16, 2023, 5:16pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/girlfriend-giving-head/4809 "2023-02-16T17:16:54Z")

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How do I tell me Girlfriend not to use teeth when she is giving me oral sex?

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## [Books on Non-penetrative sex](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/books-on-non-penetrative-sex/4773)

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**Author:** [@bug\_fern](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bug_fern)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [February 14, 2023, 7:45pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/books-on-non-penetrative-sex/4773 "2023-02-14T19:45:59Z")

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Hi!! I was curious if anyone knows of any good informative books on non-penetrative sex. something that explains -how to do it -examples of what to do or try -info on sex outside of the genital area in general -is qu…

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## [How to have sex with another trans guy?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-have-sex-with-another-trans-guy/4795)

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**Author:** [@bug\_fern](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bug_fern)\
**Replies:** 2\
**Last updated:** [February 8, 2023, 2:55am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-have-sex-with-another-trans-guy/4795 "2023-02-08T02:55:37Z")

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hi, i’m a t4t trans guy here. I’ve been with cis guys before i transitioned, but ive never been with another trans guy before. I do know that a lot of good sex comes from communication, but i want to at least have some u…

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## [Navigating an HPV diagnosis](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/navigating-an-hpv-diagnosis/4777)

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**Author:** [@pebbleonthebeach](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/pebbleonthebeach)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [February 1, 2023, 7:59pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/navigating-an-hpv-diagnosis/4777 "2023-02-01T19:59:53Z")

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Hi there. I’m a 23 yr old queer transmasculine person who has been engaging only in solo sex for the past four years. I recently got my first pap smear and it came back saying I have a low-grade squamous intraepithelial …

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## [Inexperienced trans man.. help!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inexperienced-trans-man-help/3767)

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**Author:** [@greycloud](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/greycloud)\
**Replies:** 9\
**Last updated:** [February 1, 2023, 7:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inexperienced-trans-man-help/3767 "2023-02-01T19:56:27Z")

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hi friends! so im a nearly 20-year-old trans (ftm) virgin. i’ve bought myself a few toys to help myself feel more comfortable with the idea of masturbating penetratively as well as give myself an idea of actual penetrati…

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## [Using Lube and UTIs?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/using-lube-and-utis/4768)

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**Author:** [@bootyboy](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bootyboy)\
**Replies:** 1\
**Last updated:** [February 1, 2023, 7:53pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/using-lube-and-utis/4768 "2023-02-01T19:53:35Z")

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So my partner has been having uncommonly frequent UTIs recently, and it seems like they only happen when we use lube. Because she gets quite wet naturally we only use lube for anal play. We’ve been using Sliquid’s Sassy …

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## [Valentine's Day pre-sale: Save sitewide!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/valentines-day-pre-sale-save-sitewide/4770)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [January 26, 2023, 6:04pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/valentines-day-pre-sale-save-sitewide/4770 "2023-01-26T18:04:07Z")

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Happy almost love day, everyone! We’re kicking off the V-day shopping season with a special deal: 20% off the entire Spectrum website! Through 1/29 just use the code “ShareTheLove” at checkout to save 20% off everything…

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## [Best Bang for Your Buck: Sexy Gifts on a Budget](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-bang-for-your-buck-sexy-gifts-on-a-budget/4737)

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**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\
**Replies:** 0\
**Last updated:** [January 4, 2023, 6:49pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-bang-for-your-buck-sexy-gifts-on-a-budget/4737 "2023-01-04T18:49:31Z")

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Happy New Year, everyone! If your budget is looking a little tight after the holiday season, but you have some shopping to do for a certain holiday that is just around the corner next month, we’ve got you! Over on Journ…

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## [Will This Dildo Be Restocked?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/will-this-dildo-be-restocked/4721)

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**Author:** [@bug\_fern](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bug_fern)\
**Replies:** 2\
**Last updated:** [January 1, 2023, 1:52am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/will-this-dildo-be-restocked/4721 "2023-01-01T01:52:44Z")

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Hi! i’m new here :slight\_smile: does anyone know if the tantus duchess dildo will be restocked ?im rly hoping to get it ! \<3 Tantus Duchess O2 Dual Density Silicone Dildo | Spectrum Boutique

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## [Suggestions on Hair & Sex](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suggestions-on-hair-sex/4678)

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**Author:** [@sexualnova](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/sexualnova)\
**Replies:** 3\
**Last updated:** [December 11, 2022, 8:39am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suggestions-on-hair-sex/4678 "2022-12-11T08:39:15Z")

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So I know pubic hair is totally natural and I personally prefer to keep things trim but not shave all the way down because I don’t like the regrowth itching. I recently got a new sexual partner and the chemistry is amaz…

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