# Latest **URL:** https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md [Latest](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/categories.md) --- ## [Welcome to Spectrum Boutique's Discourse](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/welcome-to-spectrum-boutiques-discourse/7)
**Author:** [@system](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/system)\ **Replies:** 15\ **Last updated:** [May 30, 2023, 7:46pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/welcome-to-spectrum-boutiques-discourse/7 "2023-05-30T19:46:39Z")
Welcome to the Forum! Please be respectful of each other, and please read the guidelines we have below: Consent is key on Spectrum Forum. Please ask first before private messaging a user, and always ask before sending… --- ## [Farewell to Our Beloved Forum Community](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/farewell-to-our-beloved-forum-community/5259)
**Author:** [@thongria](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/thongria)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [February 2, 2024, 6:06pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/farewell-to-our-beloved-forum-community/5259 "2024-02-02T18:06:08Z")
Dear Spectrum Forum Members, It is with a heavy heart that we write to inform you that after much consideration, the decision has been made to close the Spectrum Forum. It has been an incredible journey, and we wanted t… --- ## [Toy identification](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/toy-identification/5233)
**Author:** [@Lord\_Strange](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Lord_Strange)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [January 4, 2024, 1:33am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/toy-identification/5233 "2024-01-04T01:33:11Z")
Hello all! Lord Strange hopes all is well with everyone! If it please you this one would ask for your help with identifying the following toy. Lady Strange and this one found this after our son moved out. We believe it m… --- ## [Spectrum Winter Sale is ON! Save big on hundreds of goodies!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spectrum-winter-sale-is-on-save-big-on-hundreds-of-goodies/5182)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 24, 2023, 4:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spectrum-winter-sale-is-on-save-big-on-hundreds-of-goodies/5182 "2023-11-24T16:25:55Z")
Hope everyone is having a relaxing holiday here in the US. As we enter one of the biggest shopping seasons of the year, we’ve added hundreds of toys to the Spectrum Winter Sale section, no code needed! Don’t miss your c… --- ## [Best Literary Erotica Websites?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-literary-erotica-websites/810)
**Author:** [@SneezeDoctor321](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/SneezeDoctor321)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [November 23, 2023, 2:44am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-literary-erotica-websites/810 "2023-11-23T02:44:31Z")
What little eroitca I have read, I am a big fan of. Anybody have any recommendation for literary erotica? Especially for those, who do not fully enjoy graphical porn? --- ## [Magic Wand Sale! (This NEVER happens!)](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/magic-wand-sale-this-never-happens/5177)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 22, 2023, 7:58pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/magic-wand-sale-this-never-happens/5177 "2023-11-22T19:58:53Z")
Hey all! You know (and likely love) the legendary Magic Wand, a fan favorite for the ages. It NEVER goes on sale, but guess what? You can snag it now with a discount! Treat yourself (or a lucky someone) by grabbing this … --- ## [Your Vibe Will NOT Desensitize Your Clit](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/your-vibe-will-not-desensitize-your-clit/5162)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 9, 2023, 6:29am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/your-vibe-will-not-desensitize-your-clit/5162 "2023-11-09T06:29:18Z")
A question folks often ask us at Spectrum is, “can a vibe desensitize your body parts?” Tara Michaela explains the science and myths behind this question for Spectrum Journal: Your Vibrator Won’t Desensitize Your Clitori… --- ## [BOO!👻 Happy Halloween, 20% off the ENTIRE site!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/boo-happy-halloween-20-off-the-entire-site/5139)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2023, 4:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/boo-happy-halloween-20-off-the-entire-site/5139 "2023-10-31T16:56:41Z")
Happy Halloween, everyone! We have a special treat, no trick for customers today. Save 20% off our ENTIRE site. Just use the code “TrickOrTreat” at checkout! And don’t forget, until midnight tonight you can also save… --- ## [End of the month deals! Spooky savings inside](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/end-of-the-month-deals-spooky-savings-inside/5134)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 25, 2023, 5:17pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/end-of-the-month-deals-spooky-savings-inside/5134 "2023-10-25T17:17:29Z")
Hey all! There are two ways to save over in the shop as we round out the end of October! First up, get not one, not two but three vibrators with the Nexus G-Play Trio! This is a great set to gradually train up vaginally… --- ## [Happy Kinktober! 🎃 Save 30% off all Doc Johnson items now!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-kinktober-save-30-off-all-doc-johnson-items-now/5127)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 20, 2023, 6:43pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-kinktober-save-30-off-all-doc-johnson-items-now/5127 "2023-10-20T18:43:49Z")
Happy Kinktober! Hope y’all are celebrating in the most spooky of ways :slight\_smile: For a limited time to celebrate, you can save 30% off all Doc Johnson items (yes, even the Gunner!) Just use the code “Kinktober” at… --- ## [Two day sale! A prime savings of 20% off the entire site!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/two-day-sale-a-prime-savings-of-20-off-the-entire-site/5116)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 11, 2023, 5:31pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/two-day-sale-a-prime-savings-of-20-off-the-entire-site/5116 "2023-10-11T17:31:35Z")
Hey all. Everyone at Spectrum really appreciates folks shopping with us as a small business, so to thank customers we’re running a 20% off sale of the ENTIRE site. So if you’ve been wanting to snag something a bit pricey… --- ## [Free gift with Magic Wand Micro pre-order!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-gift-with-magic-wand-micro-pre-order/5107)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 4, 2023, 5:32pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-gift-with-magic-wand-micro-pre-order/5107 "2023-10-04T17:32:04Z")
Hey all! Hope your October is off to a great start. We have some exciting news: the Magic Wand Micro is almost here! Yup, the famed Magic Wand is coming out with a new size, and it’s the most portable option they have y… --- ## [Sexy Bull Big, Just Not Too Ouchy Big](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sexy-bull-big-just-not-too-ouchy-big/5099)
**Author:** [@MNR](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/MNR)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [September 29, 2023, 10:37pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sexy-bull-big-just-not-too-ouchy-big/5099 "2023-09-29T22:37:16Z")
My wife and I have recently started to explore the fantasy of interracial cuckoldry. She would like to incorporate a realistic dildo in her fantasies of being serviced. Part of the fantasy is having me select a toy as if… --- ## [Lelo Flash Sale Alert!🚨](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lelo-flash-sale-alert/5090)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 21, 2023, 6:16pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/lelo-flash-sale-alert/5090 "2023-09-21T18:16:56Z")
Hey all! Great time to save some dough on Lelo products right now with a flash sale we’re doing! Save 20% off all Lelo items between now and Friday night! Use the code “LELO” at checkout now: We've found results for "Lel… --- ## [Talk Like a Pirate Day: 20% off all booty toys!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/talk-like-a-pirate-day-20-off-all-booty-toys/5087)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 19, 2023, 8:37pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/talk-like-a-pirate-day-20-off-all-booty-toys/5087 "2023-09-19T20:37:19Z")
ARRRRRRRGH it’s Talk Like a Pirate Day, time to SURRENDER YOUR BOOTY! :pirate\_flag: Takes 20% off all booty toys with the code “SURRENDER” at checkout: Butt Toys & Anal Sex Toys | Spectrum Boutique \*Terms: Offer val… --- ## [New Our Gyro Vibe Review up on Journal!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-our-gyro-vibe-review-up-on-journal/5086)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 17, 2023, 9:11pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/new-our-gyro-vibe-review-up-on-journal/5086 "2023-09-17T21:11:56Z")
"Optimized for pleasure… It is both “Hello, heaven” and “Hell, yes.” :partying\_face: Curious about that gyrating, jostling, toy we’ve posted over on social? Head to Spectrum Journal to read the full review of the Our Gy… --- ## [Getting to the Bottom of Bottoming: Tips for Being a Top Bottom](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/getting-to-the-bottom-of-bottoming-tips-for-being-a-top-bottom/5076)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 6, 2023, 2:43pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/getting-to-the-bottom-of-bottoming-tips-for-being-a-top-bottom/5076 "2023-09-06T14:43:22Z")
Hey all! Get ready to romance that hole with expert Bobby Box over on Journal!:peach: Abandon what you’ve heard about bottoming and make room for your own opinions as Bobby shares facts and dispels myths in his latest a… --- ## [Carly's Birthday Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/carlys-birthday-sale/5071)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 3, 2023, 4:27pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/carlys-birthday-sale/5071 "2023-09-03T16:27:51Z")
To celebrate another year gracing us with her radness, we’re having a flash sale to celebrate @MakeUpAndSin’s Birthday! Everything (except sale items) are 20% off to celebrate our birthday babe! Go stock up on those goo… --- ## [Help combating deathgrip using masterbation sleeve](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/help-combating-deathgrip-using-masterbation-sleeve/5054)
**Author:** [@arkcane](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/arkcane)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [August 18, 2023, 2:29am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/help-combating-deathgrip-using-masterbation-sleeve/5054 "2023-08-18T02:29:55Z")
Does anyone have any advice on a masturbation sleeve to help with deathgrip? “deathgrip” is where you get too used to getting off with your own hand and being able to apply as much pressure as you want to get off. It wa… --- ## [Save on anal training sets now! 🍑](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/save-on-anal-training-sets-now/5050)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [August 13, 2023, 11:11pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/save-on-anal-training-sets-now/5050 "2023-08-13T23:11:49Z")
Hey all! Hope everyone is having a great time celebrating Anal August, the best holiday :slight\_smile: Spectrum is offering 20% off all anal training sets with the code “SETITOFF” on our site now, the perfect way to prep… --- ## [What Makes a Vibrator Rumbly vs. Buzzy?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-makes-a-vibrator-rumbly-vs-buzzy/5033)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [July 21, 2023, 4:18pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-makes-a-vibrator-rumbly-vs-buzzy/5033 "2023-07-21T16:18:33Z")
Hey all! You’ve probably seen the terms buzzy and rumbly mentioned in descriptions of vibrators, but what does it really mean? Over on Journal, the always awesome Super Smash Cache take apart several mini vibe motors to … --- ## [Big Summer Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/big-summer-sale/5020)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [July 6, 2023, 2:33pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/big-summer-sale/5020 "2023-07-06T14:33:12Z")
Hey all! We just kicked off our big summer sale, which is the perfect chance to heat things up while cooling off indoors! This is the biggest sale we do of the season, and you can save 25-50% off hundreds of toys, no cod… --- ## [Tell us all about yourself!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/tell-us-all-about-yourself/293)
**Author:** [@Fee](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Fee)\ **Replies:** 74\ **Last updated:** [July 6, 2023, 2:19pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/tell-us-all-about-yourself/293 "2023-07-06T14:19:37Z")
Let’s use this thread to get to know each other :grin: Hi! I’m Fee, I’m a filmmaker and aspiring sexual educator based in Germany. In this current lockdown situation I find myself watching a lot of TV, playing solitaire… --- ## [(TW) Fetish Shame](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/tw-fetish-shame/3192)
**Author:** [@alanasaga](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/alanasaga)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [July 3, 2023, 9:36pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/tw-fetish-shame/3192 "2023-07-03T21:36:49Z")
Okay. So I have a pregnancy fetish that I recall being into since I was a child. I have fantasies about caring for another person as they deliver a baby. I have a lot of shame and guilt around this fetish, due to it bein… --- ## [Suction toys and hair](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suction-toys-and-hair/4979)
**Author:** [@eugenie](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/eugenie)\ **Replies:** 6\ **Last updated:** [July 1, 2023, 5:28am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suction-toys-and-hair/4979 "2023-07-01T05:28:46Z")
Hello to all, Not sure if this is the right place for my query, my apologies if not. I’m currently looking for a sex toy, I’ve never had one before. I read about suction toys and how they seem very well reviewed and lik… --- ## [Plus Size Lingerie](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/plus-size-lingerie/5014)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [June 29, 2023, 6:06pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/plus-size-lingerie/5014 "2023-06-29T18:06:51Z")
Hey everyone! We’ve got a super informative article over on Journal today for those who love lingerie! Whether you’re buying it for yourself or as a gift, it can be intimidating. Thankfully the awesome @MakeUpAndSin trie… --- ## [Happy Zaddy's Day Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-zaddys-day-sale/5003)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [June 18, 2023, 4:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-zaddys-day-sale/5003 "2023-06-18T16:56:07Z")
Hey all! Celebrate the Zaddy’s in your life with 25% off Gawk Gawk 3000, Gawk Gawk 4000, and Evolved Body Kisses, today only! Just use the code “Zaddy” at checkout! Check out the Gawk Gawk toys here, and the Body Kisses… --- ## [Does anyone know of a fake cum recipe that is good for the vagina?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/does-anyone-know-of-a-fake-cum-recipe-that-is-good-for-the-vagina/4987)
**Author:** [@Milly](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Milly)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [June 7, 2023, 3:52pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/does-anyone-know-of-a-fake-cum-recipe-that-is-good-for-the-vagina/4987 "2023-06-07T15:52:28Z")
Hello! Does anyone know a recipe for fake cum that is safe for the vagina or, better yet, beneficial for the vagina? --- ## [Book Recommendations](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/book-recommendations/4985)
**Author:** [@Briseasy](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Briseasy)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [June 5, 2023, 8:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/book-recommendations/4985 "2023-06-05T20:56:38Z")
I was wondering if anyone has any book recommendations for sex trauma healing. Preferably physical, mental, and religious. I am ready to move onto the next part of healing but feel a littel bit stuck. Right now there is … --- ## [Long Weekend Flash Sale!🚨](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/long-weekend-flash-sale/4969)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 27, 2023, 4:13pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/long-weekend-flash-sale/4969 "2023-05-27T16:13:23Z")
Hey all! Happy unofficial kickoff to summer weekend! Hope everyone is able to enjoy some sunshine and joy, especially as we head into Pride month. We’re having a great deal this weekend only, save 30% off our entire col… [Next page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md?page=1)