# Uncategorized **URL:** https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/c/uncategorized/1.md?page=2 [Latest](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/categories.md) **Page:** 3 --- ## [I read "My Dark Vanessa" and I need to talk about it](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/i-read-my-dark-vanessa-and-i-need-to-talk-about-it/3475)
**Author:** [@lucid\_dreaming](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/lucid_dreaming)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [August 20, 2022, 2:36pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/i-read-my-dark-vanessa-and-i-need-to-talk-about-it/3475 "2022-08-20T14:36:53Z")
So just a few days ago I finished the book “My Dark Vanessa” by Kate Elizabeth Russell and I must say it has become one of my number one favorite books of all time. I’m really hoping that other people on the forum have r… --- ## [Thrusting Toy Roundup and Reviews](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/thrusting-toy-roundup-and-reviews/4367)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [August 3, 2022, 3:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/thrusting-toy-roundup-and-reviews/4367 "2022-08-03T15:12:29Z")
Hey all! @MakeUpAndSin has written up reviews of all types of thrusty toys for this handy guide over on Spectrum Journal. Trust the thrust, and check it out: --- ## [What can i study in sexual health and education if i wish to start my own business in the industry?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-can-i-study-in-sexual-health-and-education-if-i-wish-to-start-my-own-business-in-the-industry/4348)
**Author:** [@Peech](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Peech)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [July 25, 2022, 5:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-can-i-study-in-sexual-health-and-education-if-i-wish-to-start-my-own-business-in-the-industry/4348 "2022-07-25T17:10:25Z")
This might be an unusual question here but I’m hoping to start a business in the sex industry and i want to learn a lot first. I want to study, preferably something i can do from my home (in India). Can everyone please p… --- ## [G-spot toy with circular motion](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/g-spot-toy-with-circular-motion/4341)
**Author:** [@LucyVonRose](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LucyVonRose)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [July 24, 2022, 9:24am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/g-spot-toy-with-circular-motion/4341 "2022-07-24T09:24:54Z")
I’m looking for a type of toy I’m really struggling to find! Help? So I have this cheap rabbit with beads and a curved head that spins to stimulate the g-spot. And I love it, in theory. The problem is that first of all … --- ## [Suction cup dildo](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suction-cup-dildo/4309)
**Author:** [@JayDoog28](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/JayDoog28)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [July 8, 2022, 9:29pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suction-cup-dildo/4309 "2022-07-08T21:29:11Z")
Anyone have any good recommendations for suction cup dildos that actual stick? I have two and they only stick to the side of the bath tub. I want to have more fun in other rooms in the house plus it’s fun to surprise hus… --- ## [Squirting tips and tricks?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/squirting-tips-and-tricks/4305)
**Author:** [@xxkagexx](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/xxkagexx)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [July 8, 2022, 9:19pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/squirting-tips-and-tricks/4305 "2022-07-08T21:19:27Z")
I want to maximize the amount and frequency of my squirting when with a certain partner. 2/3 times I gush all over but I want it to happen every time. Any tips? --- ## [International Kissing Day! 😘 20% off!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/international-kissing-day-20-off/4306)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [July 6, 2022, 3:13pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/international-kissing-day-20-off/4306 "2022-07-06T15:13:43Z")
Hey everyone! It’s International Kissing Day today!:kiss: Take 20% off mouth-watering products with the code “MouthWatering” today only: https://bit.ly/3P8qLzf (Offer valid only on 7/6/22 until 11:59pm EST. Cannot b… --- ## [Sex Shop Etiquette: How To Shop for Sex Toys and Not Be a Creep](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sex-shop-etiquette-how-to-shop-for-sex-toys-and-not-be-a-creep/4264)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [June 17, 2022, 4:47pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sex-shop-etiquette-how-to-shop-for-sex-toys-and-not-be-a-creep/4264 "2022-06-17T16:47:08Z")
Hey all and Happy Friday! While Spectrum is an online retailer, you may also have a favorite or new brick and mortar sex shop that you go to or are planning on visiting. Now that some of us are doing more in person shopp… --- ## [Endometriosis Concerns](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/endometriosis-concerns/3913)
**Author:** [@sexualnova](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/sexualnova)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [June 8, 2022, 1:38pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/endometriosis-concerns/3913 "2022-06-08T13:38:15Z")
So I’m fairly certain I have endometriosis and when being evaluated by a radiologist (for a hernia) and by my doc who’ll be doing my hernia repairs they said my symptoms seem pretty clearly like endo despite all of the g… --- ## [25% off all Aneros products this month!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/25-off-all-aneros-products-this-month/4245)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [June 6, 2022, 11:19pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/25-off-all-aneros-products-this-month/4245 "2022-06-06T23:19:02Z")
Hey everybody! We have a great deal all month long to snag some quality Aneros products at a discount, woo! Take 25% off all Aneros with code “AnerosPride” at checkout! Offer valid through 6/30/22 at 11:59pm EST. Cannot… --- ## [Masturbation/Orgasm after Laparascopy/Hernia Repair?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/masturbation-orgasm-after-laparascopy-hernia-repair/4236)
**Author:** [@sexualnova](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/sexualnova)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [June 6, 2022, 11:14pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/masturbation-orgasm-after-laparascopy-hernia-repair/4236 "2022-06-06T23:14:03Z")
Curious if anyone has advice on when it’s considered safe to orgasm after getting a lap? I had a minor hernia repair and they removed cysts hanging from my tubes + one cyst on my left ovary. They found endo but couldn’t … --- ## [G-spot Stimulation](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/g-spot-stimulation/4233)
**Author:** [@Here-for-the-info](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Here-for-the-info)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [June 6, 2022, 4:12am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/g-spot-stimulation/4233 "2022-06-06T04:12:52Z")
Does anyone have any toy recommendations for g-spot stimulation that isn’t a vibrator? --- ## [Woo Summer! 25% off Fun Factory this weekend!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/woo-summer-25-off-fun-factory-this-weekend/4221)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 28, 2022, 8:01pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/woo-summer-25-off-fun-factory-this-weekend/4221 "2022-05-28T20:01:33Z")
Summer is finally here! This weekend only, 25% off all Fun Factory items on our site! Use code “SUMMERFUN” at checkout: https://bit.ly/3t6EpdB --- ## [Huge Svakom giveaway over on Spectrum Instagram!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/huge-svakom-giveaway-over-on-spectrum-instagram/4200)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 21, 2022, 7:00pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/huge-svakom-giveaway-over-on-spectrum-instagram/4200 "2022-05-21T19:00:06Z")
We’re hosting a massive giveaway of Svakom goodies over on our Instagram right now! Two winners will each receive six tantalizing toys from Svakom’s stroker and cock ring collection. Head over to our IG to find out how … --- ## [Je Joue Toy Retrospective & Review](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/je-joue-toy-retrospective-review/4191)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 18, 2022, 8:13pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/je-joue-toy-retrospective-review/4191 "2022-05-18T20:13:07Z")
Valentine is an educator at Spectrum who has been selling sex toys for over 15 years! For their recent Spectrum Journal review, they share what has made Je Joue such an all star brand throughout the years. From their ru… --- ## [Freaky Friday the 13th Flash Sale!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/freaky-friday-the-13th-flash-sale/4182)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 13, 2022, 5:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/freaky-friday-the-13th-flash-sale/4182 "2022-05-13T17:56:34Z")
Happy Friday the 13th! Get 13% percent off your purchase all day to celebrate a very cursed blessed day. As a Friday the 13th baby (Yup!) I totally think it’s the perfect way to celebrate :slight\_smile: Details are belo… --- ## [Too Tight Vaginas](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/too-tight-vaginas/4151)
**Author:** [@candywarhol](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/candywarhol)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [May 10, 2022, 3:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/too-tight-vaginas/4151 "2022-05-10T15:12:22Z")
Hi all! I wanted to ask for your advice on how to enlarge a vagina with the least painful and most economical ways. I cant even insert tampons in due to pain and the fear of pain. I just got a size 3 dilator. Im not sure… --- ## [The Art of Negotiation with Midori](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-art-of-negotiation-with-midori/4149)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [May 3, 2022, 1:15pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/the-art-of-negotiation-with-midori/4149 "2022-05-03T13:15:06Z")
The always amazing Midori (if you aren’t familiar with her, check her out) has a super rad and informational article over on Spectrum Journal that highlights the art of negotiation and consent. “Before you begin with yo… --- ## [Strapless strap-on tips/suggestions?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strapless-strap-on-tips-suggestions/4110)
**Author:** [@chelonia](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/chelonia)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [April 21, 2022, 8:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strapless-strap-on-tips-suggestions/4110 "2022-04-21T20:12:09Z")
Hi! I’ve tried a strapless strap-on before with mediocre success. I’ve seen reviews from the sex toy bloggers and my fave sex ed YouTubers and my friends all with about the same experience. But it’s something that I stil… --- ## [High Five! 15% off purchases today only](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/high-five-15-off-purchases-today-only/4117)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 21, 2022, 7:40pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/high-five-15-off-purchases-today-only/4117 "2022-04-21T19:40:12Z")
We love any excuse for a flash sale, haha, and also really love giving a hand ( :stuck\_out\_tongue\_winking\_eye:), so celebrate High Five Day (yup, it’s a real thing!) with 15% off your purchase. Today only (4/21) until 11… --- ## [Hoppy Easter! 15% off All Rabbits today only](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/hoppy-easter-15-off-all-rabbits-today-only/4105)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 17, 2022, 5:33pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/hoppy-easter-15-off-all-rabbits-today-only/4105 "2022-04-17T17:33:57Z")
We have something special in your Easter basket this morning: 15% off all rabbit toys! Details are below, valid only today. You can find our rabbit toys here: bit.ly/3xyvFQp And have to shout a few favorites that aren’t… --- ## [20% off all Blush toys through 4/30!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/20-off-all-blush-toys-through-4-30/4095)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 14, 2022, 6:15am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/20-off-all-blush-toys-through-4-30/4095 "2022-04-14T06:15:21Z")
Happy April, everyone! Celebrate spring with 20% off all Blush toys through the end of the month! :partying\_face: Details are in the image below with the promo code to use. Need a few suggestions? Here are a few Blush f… --- ## [Collar Sale today only for National Pet Day!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/collar-sale-today-only-for-national-pet-day/4089)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 11, 2022, 3:12pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/collar-sale-today-only-for-national-pet-day/4089 "2022-04-11T15:12:13Z")
Happy Monday, everyone! Today is national pet day, and of course we figured the best way to celebrate is by offering a discount on all our collars today :stuck\_out\_tongue\_winking\_eye: Get 20% off with the code “GoodPup”… --- ## [Sugarless Flavored lube](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sugarless-flavored-lube/4052)
**Author:** [@Electrical17](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Electrical17)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [April 1, 2022, 6:08pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/sugarless-flavored-lube/4052 "2022-04-01T18:08:15Z")
My partner tends to be senaitive and has problems getting frequent UTIs. She loves flavored lubes but they always cause her issues afrerwards. I remember a story post in the IG Q&A listing off some sugarless options that… --- ## [Strap on use for beginners?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strap-on-use-for-beginners/4048)
**Author:** [@rageeatingcereal](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/rageeatingcereal)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 31, 2022, 11:14pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strap-on-use-for-beginners/4048 "2022-03-31T23:14:57Z")
It has been a lifelong dream of mine to use a strap on! I have never had the chance… until now! My girlfriend is trans, and we have been discussing more recently starting to explore me lassy’s booty. However, medically … --- ## [How to approach anal with women](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-approach-anal-with-women/3667)
**Author:** [@Heyman2234](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Heyman2234)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [March 31, 2022, 3:19am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-approach-anal-with-women/3667 "2022-03-31T03:19:55Z")
I have been a fan of anal since the one time a female has let me try. However, since then I’ve been told by other women who normally do it that I’m too big for anal. Is there anything I could suggest that might make it e… --- ## [Vibrating Colours dildo](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibrating-colours-dildo/4017)
**Author:** [@P.n](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/P.n)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 24, 2022, 11:30pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/vibrating-colours-dildo/4017 "2022-03-24T23:30:50Z")
I purchased the Vibrating Colours Pleasures vibrating dildo, and pardon my ignorance, but I have looked everywhere on the dildo to plug in the charger. And I can’t find it. :joy::joy::woman\_facepalming:t2: There are no… --- ## [Advice on being more dominant](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/advice-on-being-more-dominant/3990)
**Author:** [@tatamigalaxy](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/tatamigalaxy)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 22, 2022, 7:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/advice-on-being-more-dominant/3990 "2022-03-22T19:10:51Z")
Top leaning switch here, I came on here for advice on learning to be more dominant with my boyfriend while we are sexting/having sex. I tend to be on the softer and sweet side when it comes to intimate times like that be… --- ## [Strongest wand?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-wand/3983)
**Author:** [@Electrical17](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Electrical17)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [March 22, 2022, 6:47pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-wand/3983 "2022-03-22T18:47:11Z")
The first wand i bought my partner was the Lovense Domi 2. Then recently i purchased the Le Wand limited edition unicorn wand. To my surprise, though she loves the Unicorn wand she said her domi is alot stronger. So im l… --- ## [Spring has sprung! 30% off all Romp toys to celebrate](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-30-off-all-romp-toys-to-celebrate/4003)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 21, 2022, 1:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-30-off-all-romp-toys-to-celebrate/4003 "2022-03-21T13:10:42Z")
Happy Monday everyone, and happy spring! To celebrate the spring equinox, we’re giving everyone 30% off all ROMP toys with code “SPRINGROMP” at checkout. You can check out the Romp toys here. If you’ve been curious about… [Previous page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/c/uncategorized/1.md?page=1) [Next page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/c/uncategorized/1.md?page=3)