# Uncategorized **URL:** https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/c/uncategorized/1.md?page=1 [Latest](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/categories.md) **Page:** 2 --- ## [Flash Sale!🚨 40% off Romp, today only!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-40-off-romp-today-only/4938)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 26, 2023, 6:33pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/flash-sale-40-off-romp-today-only/4938 "2023-04-26T18:33:08Z")
Hey all! Today only, save 40% on all Romp toys with the code “SpringRomp” at checkout: https://bit.ly/444O3yg Romp has some great air pressure toys if you’ve been wanting to check those type of toys out. Also if you’ve … --- ## [Erectile Disfunction](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/erectile-disfunction/4923)
**Author:** [@NoBetterMade](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/NoBetterMade)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 25, 2023, 9:34pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/erectile-disfunction/4923 "2023-04-25T21:34:44Z")
Hi everyone, my boyfriend was unfortunately shot when he was younger and the bullet has effected the nerves in his legs which ultimately is effecting him from staying hard during sex. The chemistry is there but he’s havi… --- ## [Strongest remote control vibe?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-remote-control-vibe/4925)
**Author:** [@Sylvii](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Sylvii)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [April 20, 2023, 9:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/strongest-remote-control-vibe/4925 "2023-04-20T21:10:30Z")
Hey there! I am looking for a remote control gspot and clitoral vibrator. This can be with an air pressure/suction function or not. Ideally hands free - something that can fit in one’s undies. I am wondering if anybody… --- ## [Happy 4/20 specials!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-4-20-specials/4929)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 20, 2023, 8:52pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/happy-4-20-specials/4929 "2023-04-20T20:52:31Z")
Happy holidays to those who celebrate today. It’s also High Five Day, so we’re offering up 20% off all strokers, today only. Use the code “HighFive” at checkout: https://bit.ly/3MWwWZv Also make sure to check out our 4/… --- ## [Spring has sprung 🌺 Shop the Spring Cleaning sale now!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-shop-the-spring-cleaning-sale-now/4899)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [April 3, 2023, 3:14pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spring-has-sprung-shop-the-spring-cleaning-sale-now/4899 "2023-04-03T15:14:10Z")
Happy Spring everyone! (Even from a rainy and chilly Chicago, ha.) Spectrum is doing some spring cleaning and having a sale on some of our most popular toys right now. You can snag some of these cuties for up to 40% off!… --- ## [How to protect your bed from WETNESS](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-protect-your-bed-from-wetness/4887)
**Author:** [@misscocoloco](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/misscocoloco)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [March 26, 2023, 10:08pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-protect-your-bed-from-wetness/4887 "2023-03-26T22:08:37Z")
Curious if anyone has a good/quiet solution for protecting the sheets/mattress during sex. I was very excited when I learned how to squirt but then it got a bit out of hand. I love it but the towels are just NOT cutting … --- ## [Curious but fearful about anal](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/curious-but-fearful-about-anal/3907)
**Author:** [@a\_rose](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/a_rose)\ **Replies:** 17\ **Last updated:** [March 20, 2023, 5:18pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/curious-but-fearful-about-anal/3907 "2023-03-20T17:18:58Z")
Hi all, bio female here. I’m hoping for some information about anal to hopefully dispel my fears and anxieties about it. So many people talk about how pleasurable it is, and who doesn’t love pleasure? I’m curious about i… --- ## [Is there a term for this thing I like after foreplay?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/is-there-a-term-for-this-thing-i-like-after-foreplay/3984)
**Author:** [@fallingover](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/fallingover)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [March 10, 2023, 9:26pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/is-there-a-term-for-this-thing-i-like-after-foreplay/3984 "2023-03-10T21:26:01Z")
Hello! Weird title, I apologize lol :sweat\_smile: I haven’t posted here in a good while. I have a question that I seem to not find anything in particular that relates exactly to what I noticed I’ve began to enjoy as a re… --- ## [FREE blow job virtual class for Steak and BJ day!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-blow-job-virtual-class-for-steak-and-bj-day/4855)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [March 10, 2023, 9:20pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/free-blow-job-virtual-class-for-steak-and-bj-day/4855 "2023-03-10T21:20:31Z")
Hey everyone! Next week is one of my favorite tongue in cheek (no pun intended) holidays, Steak and BJ Day! To celebrate, Spectrum is offering a FREE virtual workshop, “Take the Job Out of Blow Job,” presented by Spect… --- ## [Harness recommendations?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/harness-recommendations/4829)
**Author:** [@gemsludge](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/gemsludge)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [February 27, 2023, 6:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/harness-recommendations/4829 "2023-02-27T18:25:03Z")
figured i would hop on here and ask since i’ve been looking everywhere! my partner uses a strapon/harness during sex. they prefer boxer styles because they cover their rear end, but they recently discovered that they lik… --- ## [Girlfriend giving head](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/girlfriend-giving-head/4809)
**Author:** [@Bucky](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Bucky)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [February 16, 2023, 5:16pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/girlfriend-giving-head/4809 "2023-02-16T17:16:54Z")
How do I tell me Girlfriend not to use teeth when she is giving me oral sex? --- ## [Books on Non-penetrative sex](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/books-on-non-penetrative-sex/4773)
**Author:** [@bug\_fern](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bug_fern)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [February 14, 2023, 7:45pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/books-on-non-penetrative-sex/4773 "2023-02-14T19:45:59Z")
Hi!! I was curious if anyone knows of any good informative books on non-penetrative sex. something that explains -how to do it -examples of what to do or try -info on sex outside of the genital area in general -is qu… --- ## [How to have sex with another trans guy?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-have-sex-with-another-trans-guy/4795)
**Author:** [@bug\_fern](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bug_fern)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [February 8, 2023, 2:55am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/how-to-have-sex-with-another-trans-guy/4795 "2023-02-08T02:55:37Z")
hi, i’m a t4t trans guy here. I’ve been with cis guys before i transitioned, but ive never been with another trans guy before. I do know that a lot of good sex comes from communication, but i want to at least have some u… --- ## [Navigating an HPV diagnosis](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/navigating-an-hpv-diagnosis/4777)
**Author:** [@pebbleonthebeach](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/pebbleonthebeach)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [February 1, 2023, 7:59pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/navigating-an-hpv-diagnosis/4777 "2023-02-01T19:59:53Z")
Hi there. I’m a 23 yr old queer transmasculine person who has been engaging only in solo sex for the past four years. I recently got my first pap smear and it came back saying I have a low-grade squamous intraepithelial … --- ## [Inexperienced trans man.. help!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inexperienced-trans-man-help/3767)
**Author:** [@greycloud](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/greycloud)\ **Replies:** 9\ **Last updated:** [February 1, 2023, 7:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/inexperienced-trans-man-help/3767 "2023-02-01T19:56:27Z")
hi friends! so im a nearly 20-year-old trans (ftm) virgin. i’ve bought myself a few toys to help myself feel more comfortable with the idea of masturbating penetratively as well as give myself an idea of actual penetrati… --- ## [Using Lube and UTIs?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/using-lube-and-utis/4768)
**Author:** [@bootyboy](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bootyboy)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [February 1, 2023, 7:53pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/using-lube-and-utis/4768 "2023-02-01T19:53:35Z")
So my partner has been having uncommonly frequent UTIs recently, and it seems like they only happen when we use lube. Because she gets quite wet naturally we only use lube for anal play. We’ve been using Sliquid’s Sassy … --- ## [Valentine's Day pre-sale: Save sitewide!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/valentines-day-pre-sale-save-sitewide/4770)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [January 26, 2023, 6:04pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/valentines-day-pre-sale-save-sitewide/4770 "2023-01-26T18:04:07Z")
Happy almost love day, everyone! We’re kicking off the V-day shopping season with a special deal: 20% off the entire Spectrum website! Through 1/29 just use the code “ShareTheLove” at checkout to save 20% off everything… --- ## [Best Bang for Your Buck: Sexy Gifts on a Budget](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-bang-for-your-buck-sexy-gifts-on-a-budget/4737)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [January 4, 2023, 6:49pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-bang-for-your-buck-sexy-gifts-on-a-budget/4737 "2023-01-04T18:49:31Z")
Happy New Year, everyone! If your budget is looking a little tight after the holiday season, but you have some shopping to do for a certain holiday that is just around the corner next month, we’ve got you! Over on Journ… --- ## [Will This Dildo Be Restocked?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/will-this-dildo-be-restocked/4721)
**Author:** [@bug\_fern](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/bug_fern)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [January 1, 2023, 1:52am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/will-this-dildo-be-restocked/4721 "2023-01-01T01:52:44Z")
Hi! i’m new here :slight\_smile: does anyone know if the tantus duchess dildo will be restocked ?im rly hoping to get it ! \<3 Tantus Duchess O2 Dual Density Silicone Dildo | Spectrum Boutique --- ## [Suggestions on Hair & Sex](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suggestions-on-hair-sex/4678)
**Author:** [@sexualnova](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/sexualnova)\ **Replies:** 3\ **Last updated:** [December 11, 2022, 8:39am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/suggestions-on-hair-sex/4678 "2022-12-11T08:39:15Z")
So I know pubic hair is totally natural and I personally prefer to keep things trim but not shave all the way down because I don’t like the regrowth itching. I recently got a new sexual partner and the chemistry is amaz… --- ## [Spectrum's Big Winter Sale is LIVE!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spectrums-big-winter-sale-is-live/4646)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 23, 2022, 2:12am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spectrums-big-winter-sale-is-live/4646 "2022-11-23T02:12:51Z")
Hey everyone! Our big winter sale is LIVE, and you can save up to 30% off over 25 of our favorite brands over on our site. Head over to our sale site to find out which brands are discounted on what days, and more info a… --- ## [It's Here! Our Holiday Shopping Guide!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/its-here-our-holiday-shopping-guide/4635)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [November 20, 2022, 5:37pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/its-here-our-holiday-shopping-guide/4635 "2022-11-20T17:37:20Z")
Hey everyone! The holidays are just around the corner, and we have you covered for all your sexy gift needs with our 2022 spicy holiday guide. Whether you are celebrating eight crazy nights or are looking for the perfec… --- ## [Toys for long distance relationships](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/toys-for-long-distance-relationships/4248)
**Author:** [@Petetita](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Petetita)\ **Replies:** 5\ **Last updated:** [November 2, 2022, 2:53pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/toys-for-long-distance-relationships/4248 "2022-11-02T14:53:59Z")
My boyfriend and I live in 2 different continents, we’re looking for toys that help us keep it spicy while we get to see each other again. Any suggestions? --- ## [Tap into Topping! Tips for being a good top with anal play](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/tap-into-topping-tips-for-being-a-good-top-with-anal-play/4583)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [October 25, 2022, 11:31am UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/tap-into-topping-tips-for-being-a-good-top-with-anal-play/4583 "2022-10-25T11:31:29Z")
Hey all! Your very own admin has an article up over on Spectrum Journal. After chatting here a lot about anal play, and having much experience (especially with first timers), I wrote up a little guide on how to be a good… --- ## [Looking for a Girthy, soft-ish Dildo](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/looking-for-a-girthy-soft-ish-dildo/4538)
**Author:** [@Tbonerare](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Tbonerare)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [October 15, 2022, 4:25pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/looking-for-a-girthy-soft-ish-dildo/4538 "2022-10-15T16:25:31Z")
Does anybody have recs for a girthy dildo that’s not so long? My partner likes it nice and thick but not too long! --- ## [Best strap-on prostate dildo? ( similar to nJoy Pure Wand )](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-strap-on-prostate-dildo-similar-to-njoy-pure-wand/4496)
**Author:** [@Shawty23](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Shawty23)\ **Replies:** 2\ **Last updated:** [October 5, 2022, 8:48pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/best-strap-on-prostate-dildo-similar-to-njoy-pure-wand/4496 "2022-10-05T20:48:59Z")
Hello, I really love the nJoy Pure Wand. Me and my girlfriend wanna explore strap on prostate dildos. Do you all have any good recommendations? --- ## [What to do with toys that are too big](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-to-do-with-toys-that-are-too-big/4461)
**Author:** [@Waltdog](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/Waltdog)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [September 16, 2022, 6:56pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-to-do-with-toys-that-are-too-big/4461 "2022-09-16T18:56:05Z")
Avid toy fan however over the years I’ve ended up with toys that are just too big for comfortable anal play. The feeldoe classic is just about right but I have the Tantus P spot and the Blush D3 that just won’t fit! Any… --- ## [What is the packaging like?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-is-the-packaging-like/4448)
**Author:** [@pfeff](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/pfeff)\ **Replies:** 1\ **Last updated:** [September 13, 2022, 12:23pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/what-is-the-packaging-like/4448 "2022-09-13T12:23:56Z")
I’m worried to order something online because I can’t have it visible on the packaging what it really is. Can someone tell me what your experience was? --- ## [Anal: how does it feel?](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/anal-how-does-it-feel/4420)
**Author:** [@a\_rose](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/a_rose)\ **Replies:** 4\ **Last updated:** [September 3, 2022, 5:10pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/anal-how-does-it-feel/4420 "2022-09-03T17:10:12Z")
Hi everyone. I was wondering if I could get some feedback from folks wothout a prostate preferably (as I don’t have one and I imagine answers to this question would vary depending on this factor) about how anal feels to … --- ## [Spectrum's New Loyalty Rewards Program!](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spectrums-new-loyalty-rewards-program/4427)
**Author:** [@LisaW](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/u/LisaW)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [September 3, 2022, 4:39pm UTC](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/t/spectrums-new-loyalty-rewards-program/4427 "2022-09-03T16:39:42Z")
Hey everyone! To kickoff September, Spectrum is excited to announce a new loyalty rewards program that you can join to score points and get rewarded every time you shop. Lovers List, Spectrum Boutique’s brand new free l… [Previous page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/c/uncategorized/1.md) [Next page](https://forum.spectrumboutique.com/c/uncategorized/1.md?page=2)